Will he come back?

[Anonymous]

One guy in my class I have been looking up with wants us to be friends with benefits, now I have started to develop feelings for him, I told him that I love him, and we had some arguments, now he is not contacting me for 3 days, we use to speak several times a day, what should I do?

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the waves of love can be as thrilling as surfing in California, but sometimes we wipe out, right? First off, it sounds like you've been caught in a classic scenario where the heart wants more than the arrangement allows. If he's taken a step back after you shared your feelings, it's a sign he might need space to process or, perhaps, he's not ready for the depth of connection you are. My advice? Give him some space but don't close off your heart. Focus on nurturing yourself, engage in activities you love, and surround yourself with supportive friends. If he's genuinely interested, he'll find his way back, especially when he realizes the gem he's missing out on. Remember, it's all about matching energies; make sure yours is spent on someone who values it as much as you do! Keep shining and stay fabulous while you navigate this. Love has a funny way of surprising us when we least expect it. 😘✨

[Anonymous]

You should do the very hard thing and just be done. Maybe it was casual for you in the beginning but as women we are too emotional, you could never keep having casual sex and never fall for him. Now you’ve fought feelings and need to act in your own interests since he doesn’t want anything more. I truly hope this is him being unselfish because he knows he won’t reciprocate your love and decided to let you go. It would be worse if he returns, it shows he just wants to keep using you for sex. It would look very sad and desperate for you to take him back.

[Asker]

What should I do if he returns?

[Opinion Owner]

Ignore him, and if you have a really hard time doing that, try reminding yourself of why you’re having to ignore him in the first place. He has nothing to offer you, and no relationship, only wants to take and take, that’s why.

[Theodoricus]

If he have the same feelings, then he should make the first step as a man.

[Asker]

Okay, if he contacts me should I reply?