Why sh*t test someone? What’s the point?

[Anonymous]

What’s the point? Someone fails your shit test they’re weak and pathetic. If someone passes…. They dump you and move on to someone else because they don’t put up with your shit.

[Реrverted_Сreeр]

When you shit test someone it shows that you are bored, and you want some sort of excitement or drama. This could be due to the fact that your partner is just too banal or vanilla-like in their fucking sexual escapades. It may seem as a fucking challenge in which fuckers like the ones you have, need a bit of a spice in their fucking life and that spicy, horribly erotic saucer can sometimes make the whole fucking experience a hell fucking ton more interesting.

You know, one wants to test his fuck buddy's shit, to fuck with her, to find a limit that he didn't fukin reach, or to fucking push a fucking boundary he thought would hold back a fuckload. Fuck, it’s like the whole concept behind bdsm.

The point of shittesting someone could be as basic as getting some fucking excitement, to test a relationship’s boundaries, or fuck, just because you feel fucking bored and you need that fucking edge to keep shoving things down her sweet pusy. Fuck it all, you just do this fucking thing because it’s fun.
And that fuckhole down there loves this fuckin game. You know how fucking bitch can be? They've seen fuckin horror movies with more innocence than you've seen with her fuck buddy's fuck hole, they’ve heard horror stories more innocuous that the fuck tales you two have shared. Fuck baby, she's seen things.

And when that sweet, wet pussy of yours gets that fucked, when it cums, and when that cock goes deep and her summoned demonic horror cock is pounded into the sweet, sweet pussy - it’s fucking heaven for the btches like her and for those horribly exciting f**k buddies.

The fuking point is simple- It’s fuckin hilarious. And when the fukking point fades, what is fcking left? A lot of fukkin fun and an endless, fucktastic adventure!

[Asker]

Lmao. If someone isn’t happy with someone I never understand why they don’t break up. Don’t try to change them, don’t cheat, don’t expect them to read your mind…. Just leave

[Anonymous]

Some people have been burned before and project on future relationships the trauma of the past, so they ---- test people. They want to know before they get deeper into a relationship if it's bound to fail, but setting people up and essentially playing games tends to backfire.

[Asker]

Yes it does. Especially when they hurt people they way they have been hurt

[Opinion Owner]

Definitely agree. It's a losing game.

[Dargil]

I have three things going for me.

*I can drink you under the table. It's in my blood.
*I'll kick your ass and draw your blood even if you win. It's in my blood.
*Like most Irish, except for the half breeds, I'm immune to psychology. That's in my brain.

Dependent on the shytte test, I'll drink you under the table, kick your ass (even if it's pretty) or struggle for breath whilst laughing off your head game ploy. Or, if I'm in the mood, all three.

How does that make you feel?

[Asker]

Okay lol

[dynamicyandere]

Sometimes it happens subconsciously and unintentionally, which I can tolerate.


But, when it’s intentional mind games and test after test, I don’t have time for that.


The moment I notice that they’re playing mind games, it makes me lose immediate interest as that’s a deal breaker for me.

[dynamicyandere]

The point of sh*t tests is to see what you’re made of pretty much.

To see if you are strong, masculine, confident, and carry yourself with self-respect.

The irony though, is that men with self-respect are not going to tolerate the DISRESPECT of constantly being tested and messed with.

[coachTanthony]

If you fail they move on if you pass they keep testing you lol

[Asker]

If you pass though eventually they see the man as some beta ot something and aren’t happy anymore.

[coachTanthony]

They’re protecting a possible 9 month disaster if they choose wrong …. it’s all how you pass them not if you do

[KrakenAttackin]

@coachTanthony. But women will readily deliberately get pregnant by Chad, who not only doesn't play the "shit test" game, he is screwing her friends as well.

[coachTanthony]

@KrakenAttackin never pursued those types of idiots

[Asker]

@KrakenAttackin I’m with coah. There is better women and men in this world

[Asker]

Me neither

[KrakenAttackin]

Just because she didn't get pregnant by Chad doesn't mean she hasn't/ won't ride his doggy staff in the future. I have seen this too many times. I have seen cute, married , school teacher types who were willing to let my Chad friend raw dog the fuck out of them 30 minutes after meeting him. Ok, it's not "all" women, but it's 95% given the right circumstances and opportunity.

[KrakenAttackin]

Just stop and think about the sexual pressure women are under 24/7. Any woman on social media has a deluge of Chad's and Simps hitting her up all the time, trying to get sex or at least telling her how hot she is. In my mind the only women who are faithful are those who DON'T use social media (or keep it very private) and/or those women who simply don't have the opportunity to cheat (rare).

Any man who thinks his woman would not cheat under any circumstances is a FOOL. Fellas I have seen it too many times.

[coachTanthony]

@KrakenAttackin Steve Harvey’s woman just cheated with chef and her body guard nobody is safe lol

[KrakenAttackin]

@coachTanthony. Exactly my point. And she will take half+ plus in the divirce.

[CubsterShura]

I don't believe in full operational "shit tests", but I do believe in things like observing someone's behavior, ask them questions etc to discern people. I believe people show their red flags early on and you just have to be attentive and believe the patterns that you see.

[Asker]

Now. Knowing who someone is is good. Everyone should do that. But there is a difference

[CubsterShura]

Difference between what and what and what are those differences?

[dynamicyandere]

Observing people and listening to them and paying attention to how they think, speak, and behave—that’s just being a very attentive and observant person.

That’s how people SHOULD discern things when it comes to their partner.

That’s a healthy way of getting to know someone.

So, good on you. 🥂

Sh*t tests are like purposely treating your partner poorly in different context to see how they react.

Like, flirting with someone in front of their face, to see if they will do something about it.

Or starting an argument by accusing them of doing something, just to see how their partner handles it.

Or purposely being rude to them to see how much they will tolerate before speaking up about it.

In a way, it’s like artificially creating adversity for your partner to see how they will respond—but without their consent and with concealing your reasons and motives.

Like, if you want to see how your partner handles situations when they are being disrespected, then OBSERVE them when/if it happens, but don’t be the source of the disrespect.

Observe how your partner handles negative people, but don’t artificially BE the negative person you’re forcing them to handle.

If they have unsupportive people when it comes to their goals and dreams, then see how they handle that. But don’t also be unsupportive of their goals and dreams too, just to see what happens.

Let them be tested by LIFE and watch them.

But don’t become a burden to your partner by purposely making things difficult.

Because sh*t testing is just a dysfunctional and unhealthy way to go about it.

[Finchie40]

People tend to do this if they had their heart broken before , they have a harder time trusting someone new , it’s a childish game people play to see how their partner would react to their negative attitude and to see if their partner truly loves them or not. Some people are scared to admit they love someone , they feel if they show this person they love them they might leave me or betray me. Like my ex did. If you pass their test they are more than likely going to have more trust and respect in you and realize they were the piece of shit not you

[KrakenAttackin]

Women naturally shit test to see if a man is strong enough to put up with their shit. This is frustrating but shit testing from women is like water being wet. That being said you need to put the BRAKES on her the moment she begins a shit test.

[Asker]

I can move on and find better easily. Not all women are like that

[Meropatrick]

Guys so accept to be treated like that. They dont have standards. They can't believe someone agreed to sleep with them so they give them all they want even putting up with abusive shyt

[Billlewis]

You just described me to the ninth degree. Spot on.

[Asker]

Yeah. People without standards. Men and women both wonder why they’re with the worst people. Because they don’t have standards

[artgorgeous]

But its actually good. If you passed the test and then dumped, at least you know it's for your own good, because why would you want to be with such shitty tester person?

[Asker]

Yeah true lol

[Unit1]

How bored do people have to be to test fecies?

[Asker]

Lmfao. That’s not really what I meant but ok

[Apple1996]

People do this without realizing. It's just a way of testing compatability

[LiamJHayden]

I don't even play. I just walk when the test comes. except for checking the phone. I let het, and then when she finds nothing I dump her.

[inhua]

they want a free license to be as disrespectful as possible

thing is, whether the shit-test is passed or not, there will still be disrespect coming

[ta-ra]

Can you elaborate? What kind of test?

[worldscolide]

i know what he is talking about. Read the following mytake.

5 Tests That Women Use On Men, That Men Should Stop Tolerating While Dating. ↗

[ta-ra]

Thanks for that.

Who has time for all this mind fuckery?

[worldscolide]

Some women apparently. Thank God it's not all women

[Asker]

Yeah lol. But men also can do stuff like this to women. At least you’re normal

[Asker]

@worldscolide yeah I know right

[msc545]

Women do this to assert power. The ones that have tried to do it with me have been promptly dumped.

[shades777]

to waste your precious time

[Asker]

Yuuuuup

[Anonymous]

Some guys do put up with their shit

[Asker]

But those aren’t typically the men they want. I suppose it depends on the woman. Some women want a guy who does. Others want a guy who stands up to tjem. But there is men who do this to women too.

Not all women are the same man. Sometimes you have to find better.

[annabananna]

What’s a shit test?

[Asker]

Wanting to see if someone will put up with your shit

[annabananna]

Oh I guess they are immature. Kids like to see what they can get away with.

[Fuentes]

I block people quick I don't do no test