We broke up ten months ago. I still want to get back together but my ex just started dating someone new. Could it still be a rebound?

[Anonymous]

yes

no

[Seasonaire98]

Unfortunately it is probably for real. If however he’s been sleeping around for the last 10 months seeing lots of people I’d say it’s a rebound. If that was the case it would appear like he hasn’t dealt with his feelings for you and healed and grieved. If however he’s been single and living his life independently maybe seeing people here or there I’d say it’s real, it’s something new. You could tell him how you feel but I’m not sure what good it would do, you’d likely feel guilty if you broke them up and probably wouldn’t trust him not to be interesting in someone else coming along. However I’m a big believer in having a soulmate. If that’s who he is he will come back to you one day.

[Fireguy17]

He moved on, it is time you do the same.
Life is way too short to waste time on another person that is no longer interested in you.
Ya he was the love of your life, you'll never find anyone else, which is actually true unless you get up, put on your big girl pants and stop pining over someone who has made it very clear that he has moved on and is over you.

[Anonymous]

Rebound relationships are ONLY within the first 3, maximum 5, months after a breakup. Usually they are much sooner - within the first 1-2 months.

At 10 months he's moved on.

You should get a life & do the same.

[Paris13]

Not Unless She is Like You or Has those Qualities He Misses or Are Better. xxoo

[Paris13]

Thanks, Gag. xxoo

[coachTanthony]

Why in the world would you want to get back together? Do you miss him or miss being the person he broke up with to begin with?

[bolverk]

No its not a 'Rebound', it shows that he has moved on from your relationship, because if this new relationship had been started within a couple of months then it could have been a 'Rebound', but ten months after your break-up, no, he's decided to get on with his life, what you want now is immaterial.

[XingQi]

At this point, it sounds like you ex has moved on and wants someone else.

I personally wouldn't accept him back unless he admits everything he did wrong and proves he'll make it up to you. Same goes for if you did something wrong.

[Nirmroth]

Rebound in definition is usually within the first few months after a breakup. What he has is not a rebound but serious.

He is gone, its time to let go.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

Sorry to be blunt.

He's moving on.

So should you.

[ProbablyClueless]

Not likely... at this point, your ex has moved on.

[BourbonAndBacon]

It's over. Accept it and move on. 10 months is more than enough time to get over someone

[TomMarks]

No, they are moving on. And I would advise you to as well,

[Twalli]

Even if it is, it means he's getting over you. It isn't like he'll get back with you after her.

[LiamJHayden]

Some people take years to get over someone, so yes it could be.

[OddBeMe]

We’ll rebound as in one and done.

[strateguy632]

..1th

[Blueeyes81]

He's gone.

[jahaims]

Move on