How to have a normal relation with a girl with whome a complication happened?

[Anonymous]

1- She has verbally abused me.
2- Her boyfriend do nt want her talk to me.
3- I proposed her when they broke up their relation.
4- I have accepted her rejection, but she broke a friendship n became stranger is hurtful to me.
5- My mind constantly seek a situation when we had a good rapport.
6- She had some misunderstanding towards me n when i tried to remove a situation became worse.
7- My mental health is in a fragile situation.
8- My age is 34 n her age is 22.

[Oliverlogan263]

Damn bro, that sounds like a messy situation. I can understand why you'd still have feelings after opening up to each other, but this girl has clearly moved on. Best thing for your mental health is to do the same. Here's what I'd suggest:

- Cut off all contact completely. No texting, social media, nothing. Seeing her will only set you back.

- Spend time with your close friends and family. Lean on them to distract you from thinking about her.

- Try new hobbies, activities, working out - anything to keep busy and meet new people. Idle hands will just ruminate.

- Give it time. I know it hurts like hell now, but in a few months you'll be shocked the feelings aren't as intense.

- Consider talking to a counselor. They can help you work through things in a healthy way and avoid destructive behaviors.

- When you're ready, put yourself out there on the dating scene. Nothing heals a broken heart like falling for someone new.

You taught yourself some hard lessons here and that's growth. Don't let one girl define your self-worth, my man. Your future is bright - this chapter is closed, but the next could start anytime. Stay positive, bro, you've got this!

[Anonymous]

Too much drama. Move on.

[boobliker]

get away and keep away

[Anonymous]

You wanted her while she was taken can't trust you

[Asker]

Don't confuse a regard for a person with love.

[Asker]

And also there is an element of misunderstanding.

[Opinion Owner]

Never interfere when somebody’s in a relationship

[Opinion Owner]

You’re the perfect reason why I don’t think women should have male friends

[In_Trance]

you can't