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I met someone , but they have issues?

I met someone and she seriously has trust issues , not emotionally ready for a relationship, and is hot and cold. So I met her a month ago and the trust issues were visible. She started accusing me and making accusations about me that weren’t true than it escalated to her not being supportive in anything that’s going on in my life like now I’m going through some legal stuff with my bank where I’m going to take my bank to court. The hot and cold behavior is another with her all over the place. She says she’s ready for a relationship, but she made it known to me that she doesn’t trust anyone and don’t know if she can trust me. We are not exclusive and we never met yet, but clearly her actions are speaking differently than what she’s saying. I actually pulled back last week after she accused me of something. I had to set my boundaries with her in regards to what would happen if her behavior continued. It seems someone really hurted her bad in her past for her not to trust anyone. Right now , I’m focusing on myself because it’s clear she’s not ready for a relationship with trust issues- insecurities, all over the place , and mixed signals. I don’t want to invest into this too much since she’s not ready for anything exclusive. I limited calling and texting her she actually does that now versus me I use to text and call her until I saw these trust issues and how serious it was. I can’t deal with the stressors and my banking legal situation which has been going on over a month. I pulled back from her and told her I would start getting back into my arts since I need a breather from the legal stuff and I need to self care right now.
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I told her about me getting back into the arts and she wasn’t too fond of me going places alone which is understandable, but I did explain to her how it would be nice if we were exclusive together to go to these places.
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I know for us to have anything exclusive she needs to work on her trust issues , insecurities, and be open and honest with me in regards to what she wants. I’m not open with her because she’s giving me mixed feelings. I’ve taken a step back at this point.
I met someone , but they have issues?
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