A cheater is always going to say No , no matter what unless they want the relationship to be over but otherwise they will always say No cuz they know they are wrong and they know it was a selfish act, and they know they don’t have a valid reason for doing so, so Without any valid evidence , have you ever assumed someone was cheating on you? Trusting your gut can help if you suspect something is off , trusting my gut and playing investigator helped me bust my ex. The Things that I noticed was how she became distant from me and never really wanted to be intimate with me and barely showed affection , excluding me from things when she never did before , always wanting space , and choosing everyone else over me, when I tried to talk to her she would blow up at me when I tried expressing my feelings of concern , she was finding flaws in me that were so petty , that she made a mountain out of a mole hole from , piecing these little things together, my gut instincts turned me into a investigator, I hated going that route but I felt I had no other choice, the second you show that you are on to something you are giving the cheater an opportunity to be more sneaky , being cheated on is one of the worst things you can do to someone and one of the worst things to happen to you , when giving your heart to someone , but so many people do it to the point that is it really worth being in a relationship with someone anymore? When a partner can lie to your face or you can’t express your feelings to them without your partner turning things around that you are the one with insecurity issues and then they play a victim that you don’t trust them , Don’t fall for that shit , it has nothing to do with that , it comes down to respect for each other , if your partner can not let you express your feelings of concern my word of advice is to kick them to the curb and let them go because they are already checking out of the relationship or they already met someone else.
Do you ever assume someone is cheating on you?
