If you were single and met someone waiting until marriage for sex, would you date them or let them go?

[cth2188]

If you were single, met someone, and he or she told you they're waiting until marriage for sex?

What would you do?

If my mate couldn't wait I'd be out the door. I couldn't not sleep with someone who isn't my husband. If I'm not good enough for a ring then I'm not good enough to be in bed with you. No I will not be your test drive because you're too selfish for sex and inconsiderate of respecting my morals and values. I will nkt engage with a man who can't repent my morals and values pls don't come under this video about toxic feminity and whatever issues you had with women.

Thank you to gentlemen that exist in 2023 it's not many of you left or real men sadly.

Updates

+1 y

Love these responses 🤣 purs a glass of wine 🍷

[RavVid]

I'd like that you were the exact opposite of promiscuous and respect you for that.

But I would have some concerns after maybe 25 yo which would increase with your age.

My first doubt would center around past relationships. Why haven't you established a relationship earlier in life? Maybe it is the men walking away due to no sex. Maybe you haven't been a good partner aside from sex for them to think of marriage. I would find out in time no doubt.

The second doubt would be maybe you will not like/enjoy sex if I marry you and not want to have it. If I have been waiting for a long time that would be a downer.

[cth2188]

I'm done dating why I'm not on the market after my ex and kids

[cth2188]

I've dealt with enough in dating and just sor dating all together

[cth2188]

This has nothing to do with sex just tired of dating

[cth2188]

I want to remain single and have no desire to date as I have been single since 2014. Best decision, but open to friendship

[RavVid]

That is fair enough. I sometimes use the first person in answering if I think it will address the question better but it is not intended to reflect on the person asking the question.

[cth2188]

Yes thanks

[cth2188]

I don't have time to weed through men to find anyone or deal with the crap of dating

[cth2188]

Most of the men aren't following God and fornicating don't have a tap of God in them

[RavVid]

I would say the same about most girls.

[EricSummer]

Once I dated a woman who was a Christian and actually wanted to wait for marriage with sex, though this turned out only after a while. However, she enjoyed petting and mutual masturbation.

I really cared about her so I stayed in the relationship and we were together for a year.
Against all odds she started desiring intercourse and she was also curious about it. I thought that was great and so we did it a few times.

However, then she got a guilt attack and her religious conscience was hurting her. I was actually prepared to marry her, but she did not want that, either, already because I was not a Christian. So she broke up with me.
It can be a severe problem if people are religious.

[DevikaButts95]

Let them go. Sexual compatibility is super important, waiting is perfectly understandable (I couldn't wait anyways myself but it's understandable), but getting married and finding out neither are you are compatible is just a broken marriage waiting to happen.

[Screenwriter]

If you. want to have a serious relationship with them, then you're have to respect their choice while dating them. That's all there is to it.

[cth2188]

I don't have to do anything I don't want to do why I'm single and staying that way

[Screenwriter]

Also your choice.

[Gent207-2]

Truly rare but worth the wait.
But a true test of material to go shopping for paint. Even just for pretend or for future plans, it can tell you all you need to know. How do they as a person handle conflict abd how do you handle it as a couple?
How do you reach a compromise?

[cth2188]

Right ✅️ I know in this day and time sex is not honored until after marriage.. sucks, but reality of it all. I'm not sure anymore with American men

[Gent207-2]

Sex is not even valued IN Marriage anymore!

It's all about avoiding the consequences and pursuit of pleasure.

[cth2188]

Marriage isn't a thing anymore 😕 it's pointless to date without commitment or end goal

[cth2188]

I'll please myself at this point or go overseas for a mate

[cth2188]

I don't shack with men so it changed me dating

[Steelcore5280]

If I met a woman practicing abstinence and waiting for marriage, I'd absolutely date her, as I was raised in a family that's Christian and believes in the concept of marriage first, then sex later. It can say quite a bit about her character, and other things like her ability to partner bond will still be there.

I've never been an overtly sexual individual, myself. So I would happily wait for however long until we pulled the trigger and made the move for marriage. Call me traditional, but I'd be very happy to meet a woman like that, and I wish there were more women who were like that.

[MysteriousDarkness]

@cth2188
You said "If my mate couldn't wait I'd be out the door." That means if they won't wait until after being married to have sex with you then you will go your separate ways. You then contradicted yourself with the next sentence by saying "I couldn't not sleep with someone who isn't my husband." Couldn't not is a double negative which then turns what you said into meaning that you could sleep with somone before getting married to them.

What was the point in asking if we would wait for marriage to have sex since you decided to ramble on about how you only go for guys over seas, you believing you're too old to date and so on?

If you and the guy from Italy have such a good relationship then why is he your ex husband and you are his ex husband? Either the marriage really wasn't as good as you think it was or a third party caused the divorce.
Since you believe you know how all guys 18+ in America are then prove it.

[cth2188]

My ex husband cheated why were no longer married and furthermore I don't desire marriage anymore or relationships nothing was contradicted

[cth2188]

Many people don't follow God or scriptures. I'm single by chocie and will stay single until the father returns

[cth2188]

Any man pressuring me for sex outside of premarital sex it's not worth my time or energy. When it comes to marriage that's not an option either

[cth2188]

Choice ^ I've been celibate and single 11 years

[cth2188]

I wish men the best of luck based on data 53% of women will be single by 2030 I will be in that number

[cth2188]

The most I'll offer a man is friendship at this point if he wants to get his feel good off he should find suitable women for that.

[MysteriousDarkness]

@cth2188
If my mate couldn't wait I'd be out the door. I couldn't not sleep with someone who isn't my husband. I couldn't not sleep means the same as I could sleep.

[cth2188]

Sleep have sex and that's called shacking laying up with a man or woman who isn't your husband. I lay with neither and have chosen to remain single and celibate until death.

[MysteriousDarkness]

@cth2188
The first sentence means you wouldn't have premarital sex where the second sentence means you would have premarital sex.

[cth2188]

Shacking laying up with those who aren't your spouse.

[cth2188]

I don't have premarital sex because I don't put myself in situations to get tempted with a man. I'm celibate and will stay this way as I have been 11 years.

[cth2188]

I don't even meet men to get tempted for sex or sex talk neither is where I'm at. Like I said I wish men the best moving forward

[cth2188]

I'm in church 4 times a week and stay close to God. I don't do what society does just because it's deemed normal or a societal thing.

[MysteriousDarkness]

@cth2188
What makes you think you know how all guys in America are?

[cth2188]

Because it's pretty clear when I encounter these men and I didn't say all I choose not to deal with western men because of their views on marriage , sex, and women

[MysteriousDarkness]

@cth2188
Guys from America don't all have the exsame view on marriage, sex and women just like not all guys from other countries have the exact same views when it comes to marriage, sex and women.

[cth2188]

I don't deal with American men because how most of their mindsets are towards women , men , and marriage- American men aren't my preference if I were dating I find foregin men to be more traditional and family oriented

[cth2188]

Just my opinion.. If I were open to dating it would have to be overseas or foregin men

[MysteriousDarkness]

@cth2188
Good for you. I have never heard of anyone going and doing things with their church four days a week every week.

[cth2188]

Well I'm associated with a ministry that's why

[cth2188]

I don't deal with traditional churches

[MysteriousDarkness]

@cth2188
Still stand by what I said.

[cth2188]

Idc what you stand on nothing is changing about my decision either about dating men , love, and relationships

[cth2188]

When I make up my mind that pretty much it

[cth2188]

I never admitted to being ok to premarital sex and I don't know how you got premarital sex from celibacy or being celibate

[cth2188]

I see that guy left so many comments you can't leave a comment he needs to stop

[MysteriousDarkness]

@cth2188
He has no idea what it takes to be a man let alone a high value man. He said I sm liw value because I choose not to have sex with multiple women. He said if I was high value I would cheat on my girlfriend. He thinks sex is the end all be all to what makes a man high value.

[cth2188]

He probably listens to red pill talking points or Kevin Samuels stuff this us exactly why women like me are simply single by choice.. who has time for that toxic masculinity.. a report came out that 45% of American women will be single by 2030. I rather choose single life and have peace of mind then deal with that.. women like me are open to meeting men overseas

[Drdeeznuts1132]

Fuck yeah, I'd date them!
That's a quality seldom seen today and I respect it so much.

I don't think I personally have a deal-breaker that would keep me from dating a woman. The only thing that comes to mind is insecurity, narcissism or her being too uptight.

Ad long as she let's me take the wheel and let's me show her a fun time being in a relationship with me.

[Rudon00]

I'm not having sex outside of marriage. So if the person does not understand that then they are too expensive to keep.
We see marriages today as an outdated institution but I still how true to customs and values today.

[cth2188]

Few men acknowledge this

[Rudon00]

Only a Few 😩😩

[cth2188]

Yes a few

[Rudon00]

Yeah !!

[misogynistic_pig]

I would let her go, I have no interest in getting married anyway.

[cth2188]

Understandable

[cth2188]

Fair enough

[Vegasrunner]

This has come up from time to time. I always just let them go. It's noble if a woman wants to wait for marriage for sex, but outside of sex they don't offer any real value in a relationship. My rule of thumb is if I haven't slept w/ a women after 3 dates then it's time to move on.

[cth2188]

Good luck ! Women dictate when she's ready not a man ! There's the door!

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 I don't think any luck is needed this has been a rule I've always enforced. TBH I can only think of one women that I didn't sleep w/ after 3 dates and that was kind of skewed, I've been w/ a lot of women so I can't remember all of them but this also highlights why it's important for me to create value and build a roster.

[cth2188]

Like I said women dictate that not men 3 dates doesn't equivalent to sex because you put a time frame to it

[cth2188]

Just because I go out on a date with a man 3 times doesn't mean he's getting ass. 3 dates doesn't tell me enough about you that's still the courting stage.

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 I said that was my time frame. The way to dictate it is to just replace her w/ a better woman.

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 TY for sharing but I'm not sure why that's relevant. I said that my timeframe, what does your preference have to do w/ that?

[cth2188]

Than you do you with a better woman who will give you ass after 3 dates

[cth2188]

Just to let it be known men don't control a woman's womb and pussy

[cth2188]

If that woman tells you no ass either respect it or hit the door

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 Exactly, glad you understand. Thats why it's so important as a man to create value in yourself and keep an abundance mind set.

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 Who is saying that they do? Outside of super conservative Republicans.

[cth2188]

I'm a conservative and wouldn't date a man who isn't

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 I would just tell her to leave, and replace her w/ the next woman. Tbh I can't remember a time when a women specifically told me "no" but if she did its nbd. I would just bring over a different women. The only guys who struggle w/ this are the ones who can't get women in the first place.

[cth2188]

I don't think a woman with morals or values would care unless years were invested

[cth2188]

On a given day I upfront let men know where I'm at so no time is wasted

[cth2188]

Well all women aren't the same why women like me are a separate class - it has take the right type of a man to even deal with a woman like me

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 Isn't that ironic lol? How do you rationalize that vs not liking men who control women's wombs?

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 Your original question ask what would you do. I'm telling you what I would do. What does a women's morals have to do w/, anything?

[cth2188]

How do you get to dictate my womb and vagina? You don't! So glad I'm single 😌

[cth2188]

If a woman has morals that should be respected 💯 like men of today care

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 I'm confused as to what this has to do w/ the question. Didn't you ask what would I do if someone wanted to wait for marriage to have sex?

[cth2188]

Your showing your bruised ego what I'm addressing

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 Actually most women are pretty similar. All of them believe they are special, reality is that belief is typically just a coping mechanism to overcome their natural insecurities. This post is a terrific example. You originally asked the audience a general question, however can't refrain from sharing your personal experience which isn't relevant to anyone's answer. You keep talking about the type of man to deal w/ you, but that's only relevant to the guy that gets stuck w/ you. To prevent being in that situation, guys need to keep an abundance mindset.

[cth2188]

Actually no those women have no morals and standards yes they should entertain men like you

[cth2188]

I've been single most of my life men aren't on my radar if I were dating this is who I am

[cth2188]

Insecurities nope pretty melancholic

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 Me personally? I have zero interest in dictating anyone's womb, not even sure why anyone would do that but you said you were a conservative? They are the ones that typically restrict women's bodies so how do you rationalize that with your personal beliefs?

[cth2188]

Men can do as they choose idc aslong as it's not with me and I'm conservative- we stand morally on what's right not what society does aslong as liberals and democrats don't push their beliefs

[cth2188]

I'll never support anything the left does

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 I'm not even sure what you're trying to address your comments seem all over the place. Can you please explain what your comments have to do w/ me replacing women who don't want to have sex w/ better ones? I don't even think this ever happened to me, but I'm confused as to what point your attempting to make. Please clarify.

[cth2188]

I'm addressing you - how this started after 3 dates I'm entitled to ass

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 I can't speak to that as I don't believe in shaming women. I always say women typically are the ones that shame other women, Asyou have shown.

[cth2188]

Wtf. I chimed in

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 TY for sharing but I already assumed that any woman making a man wait for sex was probably single.

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 If that was true you wouldn't feel the need to share your preferences when you asked for other people's opinions.

[cth2188]

Idc about dating I'm just saying if I were dating and I have no expectations of dating now

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 You do realize that conservatives are the political group that places restrictions on women's wombs? You originally said were against that. Now you're for it? I can't keep up w/ the contradictions.

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 Please share where I said that I'm entitled to anything. Don't worry I'll wait.

[MysteriousDarkness]

@Vegasrunner
No matter the time it took to get the three dates you expect the woman to give up her body and have sex with you. On top of that you think guys should want quantity over quality when it comes to women. You may be 46 years of age but still have a lot of maturing to do.

[cth2188]

Why women like me are simply single- will stay single. I've accepted this generation is lost and will not follow God nor scriptures. I would never deal with a man or anyone who doesn't do things righteously or in the word of God

[MysteriousDarkness]

@cth2188
Do you you live 100% of each day exactly as God wants you to?

[cth2188]

Yes I try too and no I'm not preferct, but I aim to live a Godly righteous life

[cth2188]

I am simply done with this generation of today and so glad I'm off to myself

[Vegasrunner]

@MysteriousDarkness Excellent question. If the dates are spread out over a long period of time I take that in consideration, but that has only happened once and I believe I dropped her after the 5th or 6th date. I don't think guys "should" want quantity, I know that that is how men measure male success w/ women. I know this because
I'm a successful man that's been w/ a lot of women.
All of my male friends are susscessful men that have been w/ a lot of women
Nearly every powerful, famous influential man in the history of the world is known for having a lot of women.
I would argue that it is you that needs to mature because you're operating your life under a completely false disney like belief when all the evidence is to the contrary.

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 But that's not really relevant to anything. One women choosing to remain single is her problem. Reality is women are not that special and what you won't do 3 other will. I realize you feel the need to be heard, but you staying single has no impact on me at all so not sure why you're sharing that.

[MysteriousDarkness]

@Vegasrunner

[MysteriousDarkness]

@Vegasrunner
You can claim to be successful and happy

[Vegasrunner]

@MysteriousDarkness TY for sharing. Correct anyone can claim to be successful and happy. However what I find more telling is how many individuals become upset upon finding those that are successful and happy. It tends to be a reflection on their personal insecurities.

[cth2188]

@Vegasrunner idc what you do or anyone noone shunned you for your choice in how you live your life. I find it to be selfish after 3 dates your expecting sex disregarding how the other person feels.

[cth2188]

Expecting a woman to open her legs to give you sex because you take her on 3 dates. Like I said thank God I'm single and don't have to deal with any of this and more.

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 I find it interesting how naturally dishonesty comes to you. I never mentioned anything about being shunned for any choice. Please share where I did.
Feel how you feel, I'm not sure what this has to do w/ me, I operate on facts. I have standards the same way you have standards, and one of my standards is I'm not spending my time and money on anyone w/our getting something in return that's how the real world work. Reality is most women know if they're going to sleep w/ a guy the second they meet them so three is just and arbitrary number I created, I've dropped chick's after 1 date b4. I'm a busy man and I don't have a lot of time for childish games. I've worked hard in my life achieving a bunch of things. Because of this I've been able to attract a bunch of women, so why would I spend additional time w/ a women who provides nothing when I have multiple women who will?

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 Again it's interesting how comfortable you are w/ lying. I never said I ecpect anything, please share where I did. How many dates do you believe a man should take a women out w/out getting laid?

[MysteriousDarkness]

@Vegasrunner
You can claim to be successful and happy but deep inside your soul is crying to be full filled. It wants a deeper connection but you're too afraid so you go on a few dates then either put the curb or you have sex with them first then put them to the curb. You're afraid of opening up more emotionally and mentally. You're afraid of the work you would have to do to maintain the connection after the honeymoon phase is over. You are the one stooping yourself from being the best version of yourself that you can be. You will either be happy being mediocre and continue on the path you're on or you will get of the path and work on being the best you that you can be.

[Vegasrunner]

@MysteriousDarkness Sounds like you're transferring your own feelings onto me. All that soul and deep feelings intangible bs is for people who don't have any tangible value to the world. It's not that complicated. If any guy goes on a date w/ a women he's hoping for sex at the conclusion. Differences is average guys like yourself don't have that many options so you're forced to pretend there's some deeper connection or meaning, all in the hopes that maybe the girl will like you. If what you were saying was true why do you feel the need to be dishonest about it? I never mentioned anything about being mediocre or the "best version" in fact I have repeated the opposite. You feel the need to say this because it's a reflection of yourself and the type of people you're able to associate with.

[MysteriousDarkness]

@Vegasrunner
This proves you're too scared to face the truth. My girlfriend and I have given back with out t ime, effirts, money and resources. We have traveled to many different countries, have many people who like, love, care about, and respect us and vice versa. We both are rich and wealthy. I could be like you and sleep around with many different women but I'm not a sleazy gutter slime. On top of that I already have that special lady. You can say whatever you want to but it won't bring me down to your level.

[cth2188]

@Vegasrunner the way how you put it what I was addressing and I'm very content in my life and comfortable being single. I'm simply reserved with or without a man I'm content. I know most men want sex before marriage and I can't do that. I don't talk to married or dating men. I'm simply hidden and ducked off don't want to be found under any circumstances

[cth2188]

So in order for a woman like me to date you I have to give up ass in general- exclusively after 3 dates - I could never be that woman and settle for some stuff like that. I run men off daily married and dating too.

[Vegasrunner]

@MysteriousDarkness What truth is this now? Tbh I'm not sure why you're sharing this w/ me or what this has to do w/ this conversation. You were originally dishonest so I'm skeptical that you have the ability to get multiple women, however even you understand how the ability to attract multiple women raises the value of a man. Furthermore I believe it's much more likely that you're a female pretending to be a man, then an actual successful man, because ant successful man would understand the importance of preserving his time. Ridfle me this how many dates should a woman go on w/ a man without getting what she wants from the man. (Tangible answers only)

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 u did a good job of glossing over the fact that you were dishonest. I never said anything about being judged and I certainly never mentioned anything about being entitled to anyone's body. I also sense some deep insecurities as I have never asked you anything about your dating prefrence, yet your insistent on bringing it up. I realize u possed this question because you want to talk about you however I answered your question by giving u my standards. Do you continue to date men that don't meet your standards?

[cth2188]

I haven't been dishonest about anything I'm single and have been 11 years by choice

[cth2188]

In your comments you mentioned about others not being happy while focusing on others relationship status I can care less

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 Actually you've been dishonest several times. You asked me "why do you get to dictate my womb" I never said that and when I asked you to share where I did you just ignored it. You claimed "no one shunned u for your choice" Again this is something I never said and when asked where I said this u ignored. "Expecting a woman to open her legs after 3 dates" Again I never said anything like that. Again your original question asked what would "you" do I'm assuming the you is the reader, yet every comment is filled w/ your personal experience, something I never asked about, so I'm still trying to understand why you feel the need to share it?

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 U would have to be more specific, because I don't see anything in the comments saying that. Also I noticed Again you ignored the question do you continue to Date men that don't meet your standards?

[cth2188]

I was conferring to you saying that you domt control wombs women or vaginas you have the expectation of sex after 3 dates. Can you comprehend well?

[cth2188]

Yeah you have poor comprehension because I stated throughout this post that I'm celibate and not interested in dating being that I've been single 11 years by chocie and you turn around to ask me about me about standards and men 😩🤷🏽‍♀️ what's happening here?

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 Wouldn't it be you lacking in comprehension skill? Because I never said anything like that. I even provided u an opportunity to share where I did and u were unable to. U have fabricated an argument and are now attempting to debate it. You were provided w/ a straight forward tangible answer to your question. The better question is why do you feel the need to reframe it?

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 Again you're only highlighting your own lack of comprehension skills. I asked you if you continue to date men who don't meet your standards. I didn't ask u anything about your sex life or, m how long you've been single in fact I wish u would stop bringing it up as it has no relevance to this conversation.

[cth2188]

I don't have standards to apply to men because I'm not interested on dating men , but if I were dating I'm no easy cookie or give up pussy this freely. You men are getting ass to easily SIMPLE. You're lazy no effort and no respect for women , but want ass. GTFO!

[cth2188]

I blame women for that mess unfortunately women like me are overlooked men will flock to the whore over the woman with morals. I don't compete with whores- not in tr runner up

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 I'm so confused. If u don't even have standards how can u criticize those that do? Also if you're not dating why do you care who's getting laid?

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 Ahh now I understand you're frustration. Obviously a women who's not providing sex is going to get skipped over for women who are. You're right u can't compete there. This is the tough delima a lot of women face however, men aren't going to change their standards for your feelings. Sounds like you've made the choice to die alone which is your right. That's the number one reason why I'm investing in cat food companies rn lol.

[cth2188]

Who crictize you I said you're selfish expecting others to give in while meeting your needs that's a fact 💯 you're inconsiderate that's all

[cth2188]

I have morals and standards idc about getting laid I said I will not compete with whores these same men approach me thinking I'm one of these women. Nope - I'm asexual and sex is the least of my worries seriously exclusively with me being celibate so long. Like I said you have no respect for women or morals as a man.

[cth2188]

If I never have sex or chosen by a man, that's fine too. I'm content solo, and I don't need sex to be satisfied either.

[cth2188]

Idc what men do don't expect all women to participate all in saying - I know how to deal with men who approach me like this move you on to the next woman who you're use too. Plenty of ass and legs open for that. I have my morals and respect.

[MysteriousDarkness]

@Vegasrunner
You think you know how are women and guys are to the point that you betgat I am a female. I was born ewth XY chromosome and on top of it never have wanted to transition so guess that makes me a male. Keep on thinking the way you do and living life the way you do and you will continue being sleazy and grimy. On top of it your kind are a so called know-it-all. With that said have fin being mediocre at best.

[Vegasrunner]

@MysteriousDarkness TY for sharing what ever that was. Yes, I will continue to live the way I do, why would I want to change?

[cth2188]

So I have plenty of cats in my yard and lots too keep me busy 🙂 I'm never lonely- I can lay in my bed at look at 4 corners of my house guess what I'm content. I have friends and supportive family without dealing with this crap you are offering 🫴 no thanks 🙂

[cth2188]

I saw that sly comment you left 🍷

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 Thats literally an example of criticism. Plus Im always going to be selfish about my time why wouldn't I be? TBH it seems like you're the inconsiderate one, as well as selfish you think anyone is going to spend their time and money w/out wanting anything in return. You wouldn't do that bit u want other people to? That's some high level delision.

[cth2188]

Hey do you 💜🍷🙂😆 🤷🏽‍♀️

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 Then why did you post this question? No one cares if u stay single, people are focused on their own lives, one women's personal preference isn't really relevant to anything. The entire take sounds like you just wanted to talk about yourself which sounds extremely selfish to me.

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 Good for you. I don't care

[cth2188]

No I was asking a genuine question lot's of people are single by choice on here

[cth2188]

You care I think you like to argue 😆 🤣

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 You need professional help. You posted a question asking what other people would do in a situation and are mad that they hold a different POV then you. I don't care about your preferences I don't care that you're A-sexual and I don't care that you don't like sex. I don't allow other people to make their problems into mine and that's what it seems you're attempting to do. If a women goes out w/ me and we don't have sex after 3 dates I'm moving on. Doesn't mean either of us are bad people simple means I don't want to waste my time w/ someone who isn't benefiting me. Get over it.

[cth2188]

Look at you om perfectly fine you were real cocky about it - 😏 I'm not upset like you want me to be and I'm not ! Ha ! You're disturbing my movie time Vegas

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 Why do you think anyone cares what you do? No one offered you anything at all, yet u feel the need to mislead and ne dishonest?

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 Women always claim they're single by choice because they're to insecure to admit no one wants them. You're single because you don't have anything a man wants enough to settle for you.

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 I've never met you and unless I make a huge mistake in life I never will so no I truly don't care at all about your dating or non dating habits

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 I hope you enjoyed your movie I was out on a first date and guess what I had sex after, so guess there are plenty of normal women out there.

[cth2188]

Many women are single by choice due to trauma, maybe she's busy with other things and don't have time to date , or maybe she's maybe she's healing - some of us have standards and refuse not to settle the issue with a lot of men you don't know what women want

[cth2188]

Many of your approaches are wrong and disrespectful towards women-

[MysteriousDarkness]

@Vegasrunner
You're obviously comfortable being sleazy and grimy so of course you wouldn't change. Wouldn't want you to have to work to be the best you that you could be. You think you are better than you really are and on top of it you think you have everyone figured out. Having a one night stand is the flex you think it is. Throwing a woman to the curb after having sex is not the flex you think it is. Throwing a woman to the curb after a third date because you expect her to have sex with you and she won't is not the flex you think it is. You are 45 years of age and still have a lot of maturing to do which is sad you low-life scumbag narcissistic chromosome-deficient test tube experiment.

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188b That's just something women say to protect their ego. Most women are painfully insecure so they say this rather than deal w/ the realization that they can't keep a man they admire and respect.

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 There obviously not wrong or they wouldn't work so well, you would have to elaborate on the disrespect part.

[cth2188]

I'm an asexual woman so why I chimed in

[Vegasrunner]

@MysteriousDarkness Those are terms you used, I don't concerned myself w/ the opinions of those that are inferior to me. I've already become the best version of myself proof of that os the money, the assets, the Portfolio and the women. You obviously have a long way to go to get there. It should probably start w/ improving your character as you've lied repeatedly throughout this exchange. I have every right to dictate who and why I spend my time w/ it's unfortunately you don't have the same respect for yourself yourself but it's also probably why you're not successful w_ women. I can't help that u feel sad, however my advice would be get out of your feelings and start contributing to society and you to could have your choice of women instead of being beholden to one.

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 You wrote the original question and I'm glad I tagged you because now I understand why u did. You wanted a place to vent your frustration about your failed relationship experience. I think that's great and I'm glad you're sharing because men need to read this so that they can understand how women's insecurities force them to act off emption.

[MysteriousDarkness]

@Vegasrunner
Since you believe that I have lied then prove it. I have given back to my community with my time, effort, money and resources. I have made a lot of $$$$. I am highly loved, cared about and respected. Losers bounce from person to person to person and so on. You see women as a fuck & buck, blow & go, hump & dump. You are disrespectful towards them and it's ridiculous. I chose to be with one woman that loves me, cares about me, respects me, wants me around etc instead of have people who are empty like you do. My life is filled with a lot of positivity and will continue to be. I have done more positive in on quark of my being than you have and will do in your entire existence.

[Vegasrunner]

@MysteriousDarkness I'd have to write a book to share all your lies, here's a sampling of some. "deep inside your soul is crying to be full filled" - please share where I said anything like this
"It wants a deeper connection" read above
"you're too afraid so you go on a few dates" Literally go on numerous dates
"then either put the curb or you have sex with them first then put them to the curb" - U may just be confused. Sounds like u think I'm telling the women they have to have sex w/ me w/in 3 dates. I am not I am saying if I go on three dates w/ a woman and don't smash there won't be a 4th one.
"You're afraid of opening up more emotionally and mentally". The fact we are having this engagement proves that false.
You're afraid of the work you would have to do to maintain the connection after the honeymoon phase is over" -Again please share where I said anything like this.
"
You are the one stooping yourself from being the best version of yourself that you can be I strive everydayto be 1% better hemce the reason Im able to dictate to women. The fact that this concept is foreign to you highlights your lack of value. "You will either be happy being mediocre" - Anyone that has ever met me would laugh hysterically at this.
I'm not sure why you believe your qualified to give this type of advice. How many women have u slept w/in your life?

[cth2188]

I don't know what lies you're talking about? Idc what you're talking about as you can see yet your under my post on another question go entertain your whores

[MysteriousDarkness]

@Vegasrunner
I am a very happy person because of all the exercise, meditation, healthy foods and quality sleep I get. I enjoy the time I get to be with amazing, intelligent, smart, fun people such asgirlfriend, family and friends. I find ways to entertain myself, educate myself, engage myself with the community, and enjoy events. I also make a lot of money. High quality people don't go around having sex with lots of different people let alone doing that then thinking it's a flex. You can try to pull me down to your level which hasn't hap p ened and won't happen.

[Vegasrunner]

@MysteriousDarkness Kind of hypocritical no? In the first paragraph you brag about how happy you are and how much money you make and in the next claim HV people don't flex. Also if you were so happy why would you even be involved in this conversation? You interjected to attempt to tell me that "I'm not happy" eventhough I never mentioned anything of the sort. This is a reflection of your own inner belief. TBH all of this sounds female in nature as grown men don't typically become emotional over another man's success.

[MysteriousDarkness]

@Vegasrunner I never said that high value people don't flex at all. What I did say was "High quality people don't go around having sex with lots of different people let alone doing that then thinking it's a flex." What it means is sometimes people think things are better than they really are then wonder why the backlash. Miles are stretched out behind you and broken hearts lie victims of the game you play. What I mean is you have a history of pushing women to the curb after the third date if they don't want sex by then or right after having sex with them at any point before the first date to after the third date. Having emotions is not strictly a female thing but is a human thing.

[cth2188]

This is why I don't invest with men - mind , body, and soul - average man thinks this way uses women bodies up and hops from woman to woman while she's left with emotional scars and damage from catching feelings and investing... why I would personally never invest with a man moving forward idc what comes out his mouth 💯

[cth2188]

Mind games and manipulation hence why women are choosing to stay single to avoid all that for their mental and emotional health

[Vegasrunner]

@MysteriousDarkness Well that's completely wrong. If you are truly hv as a man part of the validation is your ability to have sex w/ multiple women saying they don't brag about it is obvious false as men like Hugh Heffner, Dan Balzerian, Tiger Woods, Derek Jeter and the list goes on and on are all known as HV men that sleep w/ many young beautiful women in fact some are known as HV for that reason alone. Haffner and DB literally made a brand our of it so you're a little out of touch w/ reality which is a female trait. I'm not sure what "backlash" you're referring to because no one in the real world comes up to a man and criticizes him for having sex w/ a lot of women unless they can't get any women. I personally don't have a history if doing any of that because most women are going to sleep w/ a man their attracted to by three dates. If you personally want to take women out on infinite dates w/o getting anything in return be my guess as that one of the reasons the average man your age hasn't had sex in over a year. I never said having emotions I said being emotional was a female trait. The fact that you intentionally change it to try to make a point proves you don't have a good one.

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 No one really cares. If a guy is average he's not going to be able to get multiple women anyway so your point is moot. Your "emotional" scars are your problems and idc if u do or don't invest in anyone because it has zero relevance to me.

[cth2188]

I'm at peace @Vegasrunner I don't have to deal with toxic traits from men. I ⏰️ and go to 😴 in peace ✌️ 😌. You are not a HV man you're trash

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 Maybe you're choosing to stay single but I have a roster of women who would disagree w/ you. Perhaps your just not attractive enough to retain a man that u want. Regardless, it's never been a better time to be a hv man as we have infinite options and I'm just taking advantage of all of them. If you're miserable that's your own issue.

[cth2188]

Idc what does women want to do and yes I am single by choice and loving ❤️ it

[cth2188]

I'm beautiful woman and get hit on by men for sex it's a 👎

[cth2188]

I don't sleep around

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 All women claim their single by choice you're single because you're not good enough to attract a quality man. You prove that women have very little value to men outside of sexual access.

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 Men will have sex w/ any women so you're no different than every other woman in the world. What makes me different is that I have way more options then the men hitting on you so I don't need u.

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 I do.

[cth2188]

I've been single 11 years since 2014 and idc whose a good man or not - idc about not being chosen by a man or not. I've dealt with enough men not to deal with anymore men moving forward. I'm successful, college educated, and at peace to deal with the disrespect, bs, toxic traits, and drama from a man

[cth2188]

I have my peace of mind , morals , and integrity, and sanity something no one can take a way

[cth2188]

I don't want you @Vegasrunner nor need you or any man 💯

[cth2188]

If I want dick I have no problem getting it of I want it , but I don't because I don't want that. Good and positive friends is needed !

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 why tell me? It's only been 9 years since 2014 by the way.

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 Thats great tbh at your age you're almost aged out of where men are going to find you attractive anyway.

[cth2188]

It's been 11 years I didn't make the chocie to stay until 2014 I was leaving the dating world in 2012-2013

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 Gross. I never said anything about u having any chance w/ me.

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 Any women can get dick that's not really an accomplishment.

[cth2188]

Idc about either truth be told 💯

[Vegasrunner]

@cth2188 I think that's good hopefully you can grow alone w/ your cats. That's why I invest in chewey.

[cth2188]

Who said anything about cats I have lots to keep me busy including my cats 🐈 😻 to say you have so many options you can't stay away from post or responding to me clearly you're not satisfied in what you're doing speaks volume !

[cth2188]

If you were truly happy you wouldn't be engaging me like a catty female

[cth2188]

I'm content in my life

[cth2188]

I don't wake up with this level of drama in my walking life or online because I avoid it

[cth2188]

Red flag ❌️❌️❌️❌️✌️

[MysteriousDarkness]

@Vegasrunner
Hugh Hefner - is just another person to me. Yes I know he is the reason for Playboy and on top of is dead.
Dan Bilzerian - is someone I had to look up since I had no clue who he was.
Derek Jeter - I only know for playing for the Yankees 👎🏻
Tiger Woods - is one of the best golfers if not the best.
Other than that I don't know anything about them.

Why are you trying so hard to try to get me to believe you're high value when that hasn't happen and won't happen? You live in a fantasy world while I live in reality.

I don't need to or want to take women out on dates because I have a girlfriend that I have been with since September 21 2013. We are very happy together, we love and care about each other, we have fun together etc.

Prove with irrefutable evidence that for a man to be high value he has to have sex with a lot of women.
Prove with irrefutable evidence that no one has ever went up to a guy and criticized him for sleeping with a bunch of women.

[Vegasrunner]

@MysteriousDarkness Lol, that only proves my point. Just because you dont know something doesn't make it non existent perhaps if you educated yourself u wouldn't be defended an inaccurate POV. I'm certainly not interested in making you believe anything I'm simply stating facts how u handle those facts is up to u. By definition the delusion would be yours as your attempting to believe something simply because it makes u feel better. So you've had sex w/ one girl in a decade and you're attempting to educate me on women? You already proved it as each of those individuals I mentioned has been publicly outed for sleeping w/ multiple women, Kobe Bryant went on National TV and admitted to cheating on his wife and is a national hero, so perhaps you may want to think about. I certainly don't want to "prove" anything to you as you're more valuable to me remaining ignorant and delusional.

[MysteriousDarkness]

@Vegasrunner
If you could have proven either point you would have done so but you chose not to even try. Don't try now because you had your chance. Since you believe the more women a guy sleeps with the higher his value will be then answer this. Would you consider a guy to be if high value if he was addicted to heroin and was $476,283 in debt at the time of being convicted of torturing 20 women, convicted of rapping 15 women, murdering 7 women for a total of 42 different women but had sexual relations with 150 women?

[Vegasrunner]

@MysteriousDarkness Again the fact that you have to be dishonest to even discuss this subject is proof enough. Also to you're intentionally making up statements and attributing them to me. I never said anything about more women equalling HV I said more women is validation of HV a better question is why do you not know the difference? The reason you have to change the statement I because you understand that my statement is a fact that can't be argued w/ which only proves my point more.

[MysteriousDarkness]

@Vegasrunner
Here are some things that makes a guy high value.
1. He’s Proactive
2. He Has a Purpose
3. He’s Radically Self-Responsible
4. He’s Courageous
5. He Obeys a Code of Behavior/Ethics
6. He Helps His Tribe Survive and Thrive
7. He Maintains Ironclad Boundaries
8. He Communicates in a Straightforward Manner
9. He’s Effective and Competent
10. He’s Formidable
11. He’s Committed to Self Improvement
12. He’s Confident and Believes in Himself
Say what you want about me because you have not pulled me down and you will never pull me down. The reason I didn't say push is because of what's behind the facade of your being. It's like a house that looks great but inside behind the paint is a lot of mold.

[Vegasrunner]

@MysteriousDarkness That's not a bad list
1. Proactive- He takes what he wants
2. He has purpose- Takes purpose to build wealth
3. Self responsible - He takes care of those that take care of him.
4. He's courageous- Takes a lot of courage to approach women cold.
5. Code - Quantity counta
6. See 3
7. Boundaries- If I'm not fucking after 3 dates a women no longer gets the gift if my time.
9. See 2
10. He's formidable- I'm one of the most influential people in my industry
11. Self improvement- Up at 5:30 AM Affirmations Gym Office daily
12. He's confident- Then he shouldn't be waiting around to have sex w/ one woman. Only a man that doesn't think he can get better does this.
Now you just have to try to execute on this list.

[MysteriousDarkness]

@Vegasrunner
Once again you have proven you don't know what it takes to be a man let alone a high value man.

[Vegasrunner]

@MysteriousDarkness I think you mean proven to you. The #1 trait if a HV man is to be considered a HV man by other men of value. Because you haven't been able to attract many women in your life you wouldn't really qualify as a man of value

[MysteriousDarkness]

@Vegasrunner
You haven't proven a thing when it comes to being a man let alone a high value man.

I have had women try to flirt with me at: grocery stores, department stores, home improvement stores, concerts, fairs, festivals, conventions, farmers markets, parks, beaches, restaurants, sporting events, taking a walk near my house, on vacation in other countries etc. I can get man women but choose to let them know about that one and only special one. On top of it Ias m a one womsn man. I am not cheating, never have cheated and never will cheat.

I have had people ask me for advice on: dating finances, working out, gardening, cooking, fashion, working on vehicles, giving back to those less fortunate etc. The advice that I have given has helped out a lot of people.

You can claim I am lying all you want but it won't change all the positive affect I have had on others.

[Vegasrunner]

@MysteriousDarkness
1 Proven to who?
2. How many of these women that "flirt" w/ you have you had sex with?
3. My position is that your value isn't hi enough to cheat.
4. How has you advice help men accomplish their relationship goals?
5. Lying is something you keep randomly bringing up. I said you are lying about being a man because men (At least in North America) don't talk like that. None of the things you're mentioning are impressive enough for me to believe a man would lie to another man about it.

[MysteriousDarkness]

@Vegasrunner
You just think having sex with lots of women makes you high value when in reality you're just a pathetic, low-life, scumbag that is rotten. Here are the 5 scenarios when it comes to how you are with women
1. Sex then you dump her.
2. 1 date then sex then you dump her.
3. 2 dates then sex then you dump her.
4. 3 dates then sex then you dump her.
5. 3 dates no sex then you dump her.
You will not stop me from receiving love, care and respect from others. Continue on being narrow minded and live the empty sad so called life you do.

[Vegasrunner]

@MysteriousDarkness Incorrect sex w/ a lot of women validates a man's value. Do you believe men w/ low value could sleep w/ a lot of women? I notice you ignored the questions, only to respond w/ childish emotionally driven insults. This is a clear example of female behavior. Also the fact that you attribute the conversation to yourself is also a female trait.

[MysteriousDarkness]

@Vegasrunner
Why should I answer all your questions when you didn't attempt to prove things such as:

1. Prove with irrefutable evidence that for a man to be high value he has to have sex with a lot of women.
Did you attempt to prove it? No.

2. Prove with irrefutable evidence that no one has ever went up to a guy and criticized him for sleeping with a bunch of women.
Did you attempt to prove it? No

3. Since you believe the more women a guy sleeps with the higher his value will be then answer this. Would you consider a guy to be of high value if he was addicted to heroin and was $476,283 in debt at the time of being convicted of torturing 20 women, convicted of rapping 15 women, murdering 7 women for a total of 42 different women but had sexual relations with 150 women?
Did you make an attempt at it? No
Why do you believe that how much sex a guy has is the end all be all determining factor to his value? You probably think some male pornstars are of high value regardless if they have done any good or not outside of the porn industry.

If you had positive things going for you then sex would not be the only determining factor of a mans value to you.

[Vegasrunner]

@MysteriousDarkness Lol, I don't recall trying to "prove" anything to u please share where I did. Thats simply a statement u created and are attempting to attribute it to me. Feel free to believe what u like as stupid people make up the world too. No one mentioned anything about sex being the only determining factor of value. The ability to have sex w/ multiple women is an indication of value. Part of that proof is the fact that each time your presented w/ a statement you have to alter it to attempt to fit your narrative. That alone should tell the reader you understand these concepts. You just don't like them and like most women believe that if you don't like something then it's wrong.

[MysteriousDarkness]

@Vegasrunner
The difference between you and me is that I put together everything you said and come to a conclusion from it. I know you didn't try to prove anything. You haven't because you knew to prove somethings would be near impossible if not impossible, you would have been seen as a hypocrite if you said no or seen as someone who belives as long as you have lots of sex you can be high value even if you torture, rape and kill people. That is why you didn't attempt to prove anything. 1

[Vegasrunner]

@MysteriousDarkness TBH there's a lot of differences between you and I, including our gender.
1. You need validation for my belief I don't need validation for yours. - This is because my belief if based on reality along w/ personal and factual evidence while yours is based on a feeling. You began this conversation on a flawed assumption which limits your credibility moving forward.
2. Purpose of debate isn't to prove anything to the debater, rather the audience and anyone objectively looking at our statements would find more inconsistencies in yours.
3. You spend more time discrediting then comprehending - Imagine being around a group of successful athletes, entertainers and entrepreneurs only to find out that they couldn't get women. Most intellectual people would be shocked because we u realize that women are a byproduct of succes. Bevaise you can't counter that argument u fabricate a new one claiming that you a complete stranger know anything about my status. That is delusion and would be confirmed in both the court of law and public opinion.

[MysteriousDarkness]

@Vegasrunner
You say our gender is different and since my gender always aligned with my sex which is male guess you're not a male. I personally know successful entertainers such as actors, comedians, musicians, athletes etc so I don't have to imagine. Some I have known before they became successful. As for the rest it was funny in a ridiculous way.

[Vegasrunner]

@MysteriousDarkness Yes, based on our conversation I can reasonably assume you're female, or at best a beta male w/ limited sexual experience. Who are the successful actors, entertainers, comedians athletes you know?

[BCRanger10]

My wife and I waited. If I were still single, I would wait.

[exitseven]

I did this for 4 years. I would not do it again.

[cth2188]

OK thanks

[Vegasrunner]

@exitseven You dated a women for four years w/out having sex w/ anyone?

[exitseven]

@Vegasrunner Almost. I did cheat on her once. It was only one time and I never did it again. She never found out.

[Vegasrunner]

@exitseven That sounds miserable, I'm surprised you only cheated once. How long ago was this? Was this you first girlfriend?

[exitseven]

@Vegasrunner She was my first serious girlfriend.

[Vegasrunner]

@exitseven I figured as much, that makes more sense. Lot of guys fall for that w/ their first girlfriend's because they don't have enough experience at that stage.

[DizzyDesii]

Just depends on how much i like the person. I've met three that would have been worth waiting for

[Rudon00]

😍😍

[spartan55]

Did one of them eat ketchup?

[DizzyDesii]

@spartan55 ew dont make me cringe.

[spartan55]

How about that? I remembered one of your quirks off the top of my head. 👍

[DizzyDesii]

@spartan55 ... and he ate honey mustard

[Miristheiss]

If she was a virgin I would be impressed by her character and values and I would consider her a catch and keep dating her.

If she had already had sex and wanted to be a born again virgin I'd dump her.

[cth2188]

OK! Hopefully you find a virgin woman ! American men aren't on my dating arena !

[Miristheiss]

Thanks.
I already married one and we have 2 kids.

[cth2188]

Great I already have kids from a previous marriage foreign man - I don't date American men

[cth2188]

My first rule when it comes to dating

[cth2188]

If you're married why are you even on this board I'm confused

[Spongebobssocks]

I would happily wait if i know he is my future husband:)

[Danny_dan92]

Given my sex drive? Nah. Sorry. I want a good sex life in a relationship as much as I want the relationship to have good communication and other factors

[Z1pTD]

I'd be fine waiting. That's how thing's worked for ages

[Z1pTD]

Lolll re update

[cth2188]

I'm so tired of it 😪

[Z1pTD]

Can you elaborate? You're tired of sex begore marriage or waiting to have sex?

[cth2188]

How oversexualized things were

[Z1pTD]

Yeah fair. Normal things can stay normal and separate while sex can stay sex and be amazing lol

[Adaeva]

Absolute I would. In fact, I would prefer a guy like that. Also, I will not have sex until I'm married or, at least, until after an announced engagement with the approval of both families.

[Anonnnn909]

If she was with tons of guys before and then just out of nowhere wanted to play the innocent the girl and wait for marriage then absolutely not.

If she was saving herself for marriage and we hit it off / have good chemistry then ya i wouldn't mind waiting at all.

[LiamJHayden]

I'd be fine with it. I was quite promiscuous in my teens, but the best girlfriend I ever had was one I never had sex with. We ended when she moved away to go to university Back East. She is also the only ex I'd ever consider dating again.

[cth2188]

Cool

[Likes2drive]

I guess that wouldn’t work out because I’m not going to get married again but I do want a girlfriend, so I guess they are not right for me but I certainly don’t run into any virgins that are near my age anyway

[cth2188]

I don't do girlfriend / boyfriend status

[Likes2drive]

Well, that’s going to be tough at your age to find a guy willing to wait for marriage when he’s already experienced many women before hand, he probably won’t understand why you would make him wait that long, I would be very wary of that because if she could wait that long imagine how little he would get during marriage

[cth2188]

I don't date American men I csn tell you that

[cth2188]

Why would it be hard?

[cth2188]

Can^ I already know how American men are why I don't deal with American men

[cth2188]

I also dont mind pleasing my man , but I like to build an emotional connection rather then a physical one

[cth2188]

I'm not looking for a boyfriend I'm too old for that

[Likes2drive]

You’re too old to be looking for a guy to be waiting for marriage before he gets any physical intimacy, I don’t think it’s going to be just American men where that’s going to be a problem, because men are men no matter where they are in the world, we all have physical needs, you might find a virgin guy willing to wait that is younger than you

[cth2188]

I'm too old for boyfriend / girlfriend status sorry to each their own. Like I said I already know how American men are why I don't date them and travel overseas

[cth2188]

I'm not even seeking a virgin man - I'm celibate and wouldn't mind dating a celibate man whose younger then me.

[cth2188]

It's beyond what men need it's the mindset of most men of today. I find men overseas are more traditional and more family oriented.

[cth2188]

I wouldn't mind dating a virgin man either aslong as he's foreign

[Likes2drive]

Well, you’re not a virgin and you better hurry up if you ever want to have kids because you’re letting the good years go by for a healthy child. I often thought of going overseas for a traditional woman, but it’s a big hassle to do and the grass isn’t always greener on the other side either so keep that in mind and your pursuit.

[cth2188]

I already have kids and I'm celibate- my ex husband is from Italy I do well with foreign men

[cth2188]

We still have a great relationship

[cth2188]

Yes my pursuit will be overseas or foreign men

[cth2188]

Total difference

[Likes2drive]

Well, you’re going to have to either move or marry him within 90 days to get him over here , so I guess he will only be waiting 3 months to have sex so that’s not too bad for him

[cth2188]

That's for me and my mate to decide on how we will move forward

[cth2188]

Who said anything about me going overseas to marry a man there are plenty of foreign men within the state - I have my connections traveling overseas lol 😆 have a good day

[Likes2drive]

Well, you need to make them a citizen if they are not from here so you’ll have to marry them within a certain timeframe to stay here, any man that is foreign born but has been living here in America is going to be like the rest of the men from here if they’ve been here for a long time

[cth2188]

I have foreign friends already within the states lol I don't know what you're rambling on for and if 1 parent is a us citizen how foreign students and etc can come over

[cth2188]

The minute women lime me start going overseas or mentioning men overseas the hostility begins

[cth2188]

I understand international laws and travel

[cth2188]

Every man I dealt with has been foreign

[cth2188]

Just about

[Likes2drive]

Well, you’re still going to have a hard time finding a guy that will wait if he’s already been with someone before. And students are always going to be younger from other countries.. I guess I have to find somebody from overseas too then that is here already. And I wasn’t being hostile about finding somebody overseas. It’s just that you’re not going to find what you’re looking for very easily especially since most men don’t want to get married anymore because it’s not to their advantage unless you sign a prenup.

[cth2188]

I don't know what you're rambling on for atp just stop ✋️ 😆 🤣

[cth2188]

It's just validates how toxic American men are

[cth2188]

Your views are bias and toxic

[Likes2drive]

OK I’m done

[cth2188]

In regards to women , sex , marriage , and traditional laws

[cth2188]

Why I don't even deal with you guys wow..

[Likes2drive]

I thought I was done, but I think realistically, you’re going to have a hard time or be single the rest of your life, you already have kids so it’s no big but I know that doesn’t matter to you being single o I just wish you the best of luck 👍

[cth2188]

Once again I don't deal with American men - men overseas don't care

[cth2188]

Different mindset and you keep telling me about American men

[TrillXHippy]

If meeting a girl who is waiting for sex until marriage was even possible I’d love to date that girl but if that girl doesn’t want to date me then that’s perfectly fine. I’m waiting just like her

[TrillXHippy]

That doesn’t change the fact that I will always love to date and marry one certain girl who isn’t a virgin

[TheFlak38]

I would just move on. Women have these dumb rules for their beta males. Once the man of their unrealistic expectations passed by they fuck him doggystyle without even knowing his name. The rules are for everyone else.

[cth2188]

I don't deal with beta men

[Neufd]

I don’t see an issue with it and I like good values

[cth2188]

Thanks

[Orion76]

They’ll be waiting a month of Sundays in that case.

[Jazzy54]

The real question is, how do *you* feel about that? Are *you* willing to wait until marriage to have sex?

[cth2188]

I'm staying celibate until death and have been celibate 11 years

[Twalli]

I won't propose before having sex. I'm not intending to leave after sex, but sexual compatibility is important to me.

[bamesjond0069]

I would love to meet a woman like that. Haven't in about 15 years.

Only if she's a virgin ofc. I've met sluts who try to do this all a sudden. What a joke. Feel sorry for those dudes who take that deal. Smh.

[FifiJones]

I am hoping that is the case with my intended or in general.

[cth2188]

Good luck

[FifiJones]

thanks ❤️

[cth2188]

Welcome

[cth2188]

I need gfs to go out with for drinks and etc

[fonduegirl]

Let them go. They're probably conservative, I can't stand that.

[cth2188]

I'm conservative and only deal with conservative men

[fonduegirl]

Good for you

[NostalgiaSenpi]

I'd wait, but they'd have to understand that I'm not religious. Therefore, they probably wouldn't want to be with me, anyway.

[cth2188]

Yeah I couldn't deal with a man who didn't follow religious beliefs I'm a combination of both religious and spiritual

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Yeah, I'm neither.

[cth2188]

Wouldn't work good luck

[NostalgiaSenpi]

I stopped looking for years ago. I don't think I'll have a relationship, and thus gave up.

[cth2188]

I understand good luck either way

[Juxtapose]

I don't believe in the concept of virginity being good or marriage being necessary since you can stay with someone for life without the government getting involved.

[Jltakk]

Of course I'd wait if they were a good person. I'd be there for her meanwhile.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Men can still be gentlemen and have premarital sex. They just don't have the same self righteous idealism you do. Get over yourself, it's sickening

[cth2188]

No I will not get over myself if men want to do that that's fine

[cth2188]

I'm not self righteous I'm in celibacy and don't sleep around

[cth2188]

Seemingly some men don't understand that not all of us are whoremongers

[cth2188]

Just respect morals

[Anonymous]

I have different opinion...
Let's have sex first so we can know eachother how our sex life have future...

[Jerre]

She is not my type of woman

[cth2188]

Ok I hope you find your type

[Jerre]

I’m not looking for marriage

[cth2188]

Ok thanks

[Jerre]

Thank you for the Like

[cth2188]

YW !

[BCA6010]

I actually consider that a good sign.

[itsalyssaagain]

I agree with what you said.

[samet7777]

ı want to get married a virgen girl

[cth2188]

I pray you find her

[AmeerX]

Definitely date them.

[brandon1122]

I would still date that person

[brandon1122]

Would you?

[EaterPeter]

I would have waited in past

[sweetestlolita]

I will marry with him

[zagor]

I hope you enjoy being single.

[cth2188]

Why would I not be happy being single? - I don't settle and been single over 10 years now.

[cth2188]

I have plenty of toys to keep my occupied and I'm pretty content in my life- having a man is a want not a need

[zagor]

That is good because it is likely to remain that way.

[cth2188]

Good no sweat here or tears lol

[cth2188]

Was your comment to hurt me - no sorry try again ! I'm pretty well off in my life! Happy Easter and good day ! Happy Sabbath !

[zagor]

No, just sayin' you should have realistic expectations.

[cth2188]

I don't shack with men or lay with men not my husband! I've been celibate 10 years! Too each their own- I don't fornicate

[cth2188]

As far as I know I'm married to God

[cth2188]

If I never have a mate I'm ok I've learned to be happy with myself and my protecting my temple. You men are use to whoremongers who open their legs good luck with that !

[cth2188]

You gotta stick to what your use too - I don't deal with beta men or players. I'm in church right now another thing mate will have to be God fearing and have a relationship with God

[Gabriel-Chicanito]

Most likely not fuck with'er.

[Luopio27]

Let them go.

[dudeinohio]

I'd be gone...

[clampfan101]

I’m also waiting.