I believe I already know the answer to this. when you ask your ex?

[Anonymous]

... Is reason we hardly talk now is because you’re attempting to distance yourself from me, And saying that you just wanna be friends serves the purpose of softening the blow of the break up?

Her reply: NO, I'm just really busy, however I am overwhelmed so I nap for most of the day and do minimal work.

Is she telling the truth or lying?

[laraWM]

We can't know if she's lying or not, but since you broke up you should try to let her go anyway

[Asker]

I need to know for myself to be 100% honest the reason being is I expected it for a while and brought things up and was told I’m being paranoid several times when we are all creatures of habit and she was displaying signs from what she told me her previous relationship, to the letter. Additionally, if I was right then this is my karma. I can accept.

[laraWM]

Yes I understand that. You're not paranoid but you can't know for sure what she thinks

[laraWM]

Thank you, I hope everything goes well

[Nikki1989]

Just let it go. If you are not prepared to be friends, move on.

[Asker]

Thank you