When my ex and I broke up he said he told his parents all the mean things he told me to my Face and then asked me why I stayed even when he was being mean? Like why would he even ask that? Was he trying to push me away by being mean so I would break up with him and he could be the victim? He was a narcissist jerk who was abusive mentally of me, I tried to be supportive of him through everything. He was the one who moved here for me... but why would he be mean to me to breakup with me than act like I was weird for staying even tho I loved him and he also said afterwards I changed which I didn’t. He would say the most hurtful things to me like “I don’t feel anything when your sad or I don’t want to touch you.” I would want to leave and then he would say “ you promised to stay, you can’t go I thought you loved me unconditionally.” When I wouldn’t want him he would want me more... I am so confused at this behavior. Would a man intentionally be mean to get his partner to breakup with him? Or to push him away? I would tell him to let me know when he needed space as well and he never would than blamed me for coming over too much... like what
Confused as to why my ex would ask me this?
