Do you think my ex’s friend would be weirded out if I asked her how he's been?

[Anonymous]

my ex and i split about 3 months ago, and i’ve been wanting to reach out to his friend who i’ve met and talked to before over FT. And her and I have been following each other since. I wanted to reach out to her and just ask if her and her fiance still keep in touch with him and if he’s doing well. I’m not trying to be nosy just letting her know despite every i’m still thinking about him. even though our break up ended bad, i still care about him.

[DryGermanGuy]

Lady, you give some obsession vibes with these postings. Better find a hobby.

[molonski2]

I think you need to find an alternate interest , the past is just that , let it go.

[Curi0us0ne]

Oh no baby girl. that’s a red flag all day and a red card.

Why not just reach out to him? BUT I stil think that’s a terrible idea

[Wise4myage]

I don't know, probably not.