Ex snitched on my girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

So, My ex and me was talking. And my ex decided to reach my girlfriend and tell her stuff I dont what she said. And my girlfriend just breakups with me just because I talked with my ex after 8 months for 1-2 days just to know how she has been or a friendly convo. My ex was already taken so yeah and I wasn't doing random stuff like flirting with her it was just an casual convo.
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Is there an way to make my girlfriend realize her misunderstandings?

[Anonymous]

Even though it was an amicable break up, it’s disrespectful to your new girlfriend that you’re still reaching out to your ex. Why do you need to check up on your ex? They’re an ex for a reason… Would you get mad at your girl if she were to reach out to her ex just for a “casual” convo? It might only start with a casual convo for now…

[Asker]

Well I only reached out when my ex is taken. I still kept a friendly conversation then I felt guilty as well that I am talking to my ex I even thought of ghosting my ex after I told my girlfriend sorry to hurt her feelings. But do you have any experience to fix this somehow? I really really feel guilty about it now.

[Opinion Owner]

It doesn’t matter, if they’re an ex then there’s no reason to strike any conversation with them period (unless it’s for an emergency or if you have kids together), why even reach out to her when she’s also already in a new relationship though? My advice is to cut all ties with your exes before moving forward with a new relationship for future reference.

Have you talked to your girl about it though? I don’t think she “misunderstood”, she found out that you were talking to your ex behind her back (which is disrespectful to your new relationship) and she set her boundaries by breaking up with you. I think it’s best to give her space for now, then maybe later you can reach out to her. Make sure to be transparent and fully honest about everything that happened. She might ask a lot of questions or she might not want to talk to you at all. Acknowledge your mistake, don’t tell her that she “misunderstood”, it might piss her off 😬 just tell her that you know what you did was wrong, apologize, prove to her that you’re committed to her and that you’ll cut off the past for good.

[Emanon25]

Talk to her and tell her that won’t happen again.

[Asker]

I am thinking of 2 day gap so that her anger cools down and I will reach out. Thank you very much!

[Emanon25]

That would be a good idea, you’re welcome
You can follow me

[Asker]

The fact that she over reacted and blocked me from everywhere I will try finding an way.

[Olivier-628]

you could learn to speak English a little better.

[Asker]

Bruh I wanted help for my problem not my English skills.