How do u leave someone that u love so much but u can see that u no longer have future together?

[Mariena_Anne92]

I think me and my partner has reach the phrase where we no longer care for each other. I won't lie that I still have feelings for him. But i can feel that he’s changing, the way he act, the way he talk, the way he reply. He no longer show interest and as much as I wanna be with him I feel that I no longer wanna talk it out, or asked why he acted the way he did. Feels like im just gonna waste each other time. Should I just let it go? Or wait for him to break up with me?

[Oliverlogan263]

That's really tough, I know how hard it is to leave someone when you still care about them deep down. A few things I would say:

- Don't wait around for him to break up with you, that will just prolong the pain and make you feel even more crappy about it. Rip the bandaid off yourself.

- Have an honest talk with him. Tell him you've noticed the way he's been acting different, and you don't think he's happy either. Say it's clear you're drifting apart and you don't want to waste each other's time if the feelings aren't there anymore.

- Be prepared for him to realize you're right and agree it's over, or try to convince you to stay and work on things. Just follow your gut - if you truly don't think it can be fixed, stick to your decision.

- Allow yourself time to grieve and be sad after. Breakups suck no matter what. Lean on your good friends for support.

- Once you're feeling better, try new things to keep busy and take your mind off it. Hang with other people, pick up a hobby, work out - anything to help you move on.

- Remind yourself it's for the best in the long run, even if it hurts now. You'll both be happier finding people you have a true future with. You got this!

[mattthefatbat]

How long have you been with him? Is he facing life stresses that is causing him to be frustrated with his life?