I decided not to see a man I had been dating for 2 months due to my fearful avoidant attachment issues.
I blocked him on social media several times due to that issue and each time I explained what happened to him.
But the last time I blocked him he told me early on that we had a lot of issues and it was unhealthy.
So he said that we should no longer date, cut contact and that being friends was not a good idea.
I told him that I knew he was not going to change his mind and that I wanted him to listen to my feelings if this was going to be our last conversation.
I told him that I was going to seek therapy and I had fallen in love with him too quickly because he was the man of my dreams. But I had ruined everything and hurt him because of it. I apologized and thanked him. He had been trying to deal with my problems and had tried to be considerate and respectful of my cultural differences.
Finally he told me that I can always call him if I am having anxiety or problems.
I will now go to therapy and focus on my career and try to move forward. You can't change the past.
But I am a little hopeful about his last proposal.
Is it pospible we'll be dating again after I value my issue?
