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My ex had tarot cards and I always thought they was weird so I threw them away, if she found out she’d prolly try to cast some spell on me or something 🤣
Girls, Have you ever kept any secrets from your ex that if they were to find out today they’d be upset?
What Girls Said
I don't purposely keep anything from my partners but there's also stuff they've never asked about either. Do I think they'd be upset? Not really. One might be a bit surprised about one experience in my life but I doubt he'd be upset.
What happened?
I used to be in a relationship in college with a guy who was into sharing and watching lol.
Like watching as in watching you?
Why watch when he’s your boyfriend and he can just do it himself?
Yes watching me.
Because it was his kink to see me with other people too.
Oh wow, I hear of that but I always felt it just kill your confidence seeing that happen, especially if they do it better than you did
Not for him. He was completely 100 percent into it.
I mean if they weren’t as good looking or didn’t perform as good as I did then I can see why maybe but if they better than me in all areas then I don’t think I’d like to witness that
You never felt bad at all? Like having an orgasm infront of him didn’t make you feel guilty at all?
At first yes but it didn't bother him at all so I got used to it and got into it as we went along
Honestly I tried it one time and that was it, worst experience ever and they didn’t stop because I “agreed “ to do it.
It's absolutely not for everyone.
Yeah it’s not, I wasn’t getting with other woman either so I would just have to deal with my ex coming home late looking like a hot mess
Come to find out one of the guys she was going out with was a buddy of mines, I don't know she would pick a friend of mines, that was kinda messed up… unless for her it was a hit idea because I know him? I don't know
Sounds like it was a full on open relationship
It was but I wasn’t getting anything out of it
I thought my ex was gonna help me get with other woman but as soon as I agreed to the relationship she just started becoming distant and banging other men
I feel she wanted to cheat but felt guilty so she convinced me try open relationship that way she don’t feel as guilty because I “agreed “
Yeah it's not good for some people and others it works for.
Am I wrong for being upset at my friend when I found out? He said next time don’t make a deal you can’t keep.
It's definitely weird that your friend was having sex with her behind your back. That's on him for sure. Your wife sleeping with other men was agreed upon but if your friend was having sex with her and didn't even clear it with you first? That's disrespectful
Yeah I’m way over it now but yeah he didn’t clear it with me.
I follow them on social media, they’re together now, I messaged and asked if they had an open relationship and she said no… I just wonder why she wanted the open relationship with me but for hm it’s the opposite.
Honestly she might've just grown out of it
I hope that’s the reason, because once I found out it wasn’t an open relationship I felt as if I ruined what we had ya know, like in the since of me not being able to please her.
I mean it's hard to tell fully but people go through phases all the time.
It sucks my goalie to be to start a relationship and build, I’ve been chasing that for years, now I’m gonna try to work on myself and move somewhere to start new
Most important thing is to work on yourself first. Try to find happiness.