Ex Girlfriends keeps sending me snaps and viewing my stories?

[Anonymous]

So a girl broke up with me that I was dating for about 3 months. She apparently needed to be alone. I tried to make her stay once and then applied the NC. She texted me sometimes to say good luck and shit and even keeps sending me snaps and I was sending snaps too but on 20th April I realized I need to cut her off. Her birthday was on 29 and I didn't wished her. I know she wanted me to wish her cause she was sending a lot of snaps of birthday filters and shit but I said nothing. I dont watch her stories, neither do I send her snaps. But she still watches my stories and keeps sending me snaps. So what should I do? talk to her about boundaries or remain silent. Her sending me snaps kinda giving me hope that maybe the relationship is alive. Please help.

[Oliverlogan263]

Yooo man sounds like this girl ain't lettin go that easy. I feel you still got feels for her too, but gotta cut this mess clean. Here's what I'd do:

- Don't open or send any more snaps. Literally leave her on delivered. Cold turkey her ass.

- If she asks what's up, be straight - say you need space to heal since she ended it. No contact is best for moving on.

- Don't let her stories/snaps bait you back in. Girls love playin those games. Don't fall for the hope trap!

- Hit the gym (and Tinder lol) hard to get your mind right. Best revenge is livin well without her.

- If she keeps harassing, be like "sorry sis not workin for me, gotta block you out" Don't J. A. D. E, just enforce boundaries.

You'll be straight homie. Breakups suck but time heals. Respect yourself enough not to be her backup option either, feel? Keep ya head high bro!

[kclark30]

She is playing games with you. It’s not healthy. Block her.

[rosemilk]

mainly because she's immature

[In_Trance]

Block her