Toxic relationship I don't know?

[Rinalos]

My ex and I had broken up for 3 months.
During that 3 months we both did our thing
with other people. I found out that he was with
another girl and I got Petty and decided to
send him a video of me giving my new man
head. He did the same back yikes i know... (he
sent me a video of his new girl giving him
head) after that happened we cut off
communication for a while. Then couple
months later he ending hitting me up telling me
that. He misses me and wants to get back
together and how he can't love the other
women. So we decided to put everything aside
and get back together since we both were hurt
and being petty at the moment. What does that
say about him? What does that say about our
relationship? we ended up getting back
together I need y'all thoughts and opinions.

[lightbulb27]

y'all need a therapist and a God.

I recommend Jesus Christ to start. therapists are more difficult and have to try a few to find one that really gets to the bottom of what is going on.

you broke up for a reason... because there is emotional conflict. The played the jelously card to get back. that is really childhish.

this is a heap of trouble that could loop in unsuspecting offspring.

time to slow down and figure out what is going on inside of each person. find the attraction, find the wounds, heal the wounds and learn to work together for the betterment of both.

this stuff can really hurt if you don't...

[FakeNIK]

WTF...🫡👍

[Summeroflove]

LOL! You send a unsolicited video giving head to someone? Do you know how retarded that is? You don’t know what he’s going to do with the video and he isn’t obligated to put up with your shir anymore. I think all you told him was… I dodged a bullet. But I guess he’s a loser and you both deserve one another. So…

I don’t think this will end very well. I genuinely don’t

[SueShe]

Both of your reactions tell a lot about you and him.

It say that you are immature and basically that both of you are hoes for doing what you did.

Going around fornicating with guys and girls and then showing them a video only proves that none of you have dignity and are cheap people that will open their legs and copulate with the next person just to prove absolutely nothing.

I do not wish anyone anything bad to any of your but if any of you got an STD/STI from copulating with the next person that you see then you have what you deserve.

None of you are trustworthy to be a partner for anyone. Both of you should stay single because all you will succeed in life is to ruin the other's life with your immature and childish behaviors.

[Unit1]

On the contrary they were made for each other.

[TommyMountainFigure]

I think you share a love for being tormented, just so you can experience the euphoria of making up afterwards.
Wil there come a time when one of you decides they have had enough of that? Probably, but neither of you are going to listen to reason without going through the suffering over and over.
Which leaves me to conclude, It is a mistake you getting back together, but one you have to experience for yourselves.

[Rinalos]

So your saying it’s like a trauma bond?

[TommyMountainFigure]

I could be wrong, but based on what you typed, yes that is EXACTLY what I'm saying. Am I wrong?

[Rinalos]

I think we just love each other a lot and are willing to put the past behind us to move forward in our relationship

[TommyMountainFigure]

Good. I'm pleased to be wrong in this instance!

[Daniela1982]

Well both of you cheating was not the way to go. I think if this is the result of a fight, both of you should call it quits and find another that you can start over with in the right way. I just don't see you two as meant for each other as neither of you displayed much love or forgiveness. 😕

[Flatmanlewis]

This is not a “toxic relationship” as if it was some thing that you were trapped in. This is two toxic people in a failed relationship.


I have no words for how horrible this behavior is. You need Jesus. You need to build your sense of self-worth. You need something to help you build your moral compass.

[molonski2]

What does that say about you both quite frankly? Have a little dignity , and respect for yourself in future , and NO its not a good idea getting back together , what an utterly ludicrous and stupid thing to do.

[spartan55]

I find it curious how you ask what it says about him, and your relationship, but NOT what it says about YOU. Isn't that important too?

(Did you send the first petty blowjob video?)

[dustybiker2]

This.

[CrabCakes11]

You guys both seem to immature for a relationship right now. You guys should step away from that and work on yourselves

[DishLady]

You’ve put the T… O… X… and “ick” into it, kid. Of course it’s all toxic. 🫣

[Unit1]

2 cheaters being toxic to each other and in a relationship. You both truly belong to each other. Bravo!

[Twalli]

You still cared about each other and were trying to show the other person that you found someone new, but you realized that you could have sex with someone else, but not have feelings

[Nikki1989]

That is so immature, it is embarrassing.

[KrakenAttackin]

"What does that say about him? What does that say about our relationship"?

WHAT DOES THIS SAY ABOUT YOU?

[spartan55]

The self-awareness is non-existent.

[KrakenAttackin]

@spartan55 Agreed. Yet another clueless Queen.

[DrPepper12]

This can't end well. Both too angry and petty. Don't let his regret sucker you in for round 2

[thisAppIsGarbage]

You are both trash and you deserve to be trash together

[GawkVoidArisen]

that sounds very toxic!!!

are you even okay with still being in that?

[Pookie2626262]

It means your immature like the other 2 people have said

[MsProsperity]

Your relationship it’s toxic and it won’t last

[Anonymous]

That’s extremely low class and immature

[Anonymous]

You both need Jesus.

[SecurelyInsecure]

very!!!