Is this a toxic relationship?

[Anonymous]

We’re been together for 4 years now, however things are not good.

- She won’t let be see my friends, she claims the only person I should be friends with is herself. She was especially suspicious of a female friend I had from college accused me of cheating when I did not and never.
- She looks at my phone constantly, especially Facebook and Twitter, made me unfollow or unfriend all girls. Looks at my browsing history.
- She phones and messages me at work every hour, even when I’m busy. Gets irate if I don’t respond quickly enough.
- Says I won’t find anyone better than her.
- Made me change job.
- Gets suspicious if I stay late at work accuses of meeting up with other girls.
- Tracks my location constantly
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Is this toxic?

Yes

No

[Guy13]

Wow, if you can not classify this as toxic then you must really be in some kind of love. I mean, is this even real? People live like this...

You should be writing a biography. I bet it could be made into a movie...

[Cyra1622]

There are many compromises which are to be made in a relationship. No relationships are the same. You know well what's she like. You know her good habits and bad ones, too. I'm in no position to judge. But I can give you advice which you can apply if it suits your predicament. Every person has a past. She's insecure by the looks of it. If you love her enough, you'd have to first accept it and then, communicate it with her. Ask her why she's doing it. Women are very different from men. Their brain is wired emotionally, not logically. Make her sit with you and sort out your problems. It may be difficult at first but it's the only solution which many people avoid. She's your partner. Maybe she's been cheated in the past, maybe she's insecure that you don't give her enough time. Go on more dates , may they be at your house, a candle light dinner or anything. It's the effort that matters. Communicate.

[Anonymous]

I had a guy friend who's girlfriend was like this. EXACTLY like this. She was super toxic and manipulative towards him, etc. Please leave. It’s not worth your mental health angel. You deserve better.

[Nessieeeeee]

Yes. Extremely toxic.

[TheVigilantFox]

If you have to ask then you already know.

[spartan55]

You honestly have to ask this?

[Slay256]

Man up and leave her. That is no way to live

[LazerBean]

Yeah, I'd say so