I know I messed up, just give me advice?

[Anonymous]

I dont expect anyone to agree with me or sympathize with me. I just need advice

What I did no one deserves and I know he didn’t deserve it and what I said is not an excuse for what I did. I hate myself for doing it.

He also called me pathetic, sad, and disgusting. He said his ex would never do what I did to him and that I was as bad as his father. He also called me a slut and a whore.

He also said that “be grateful that I’m not a shitty person, otherwise I would be like those guys and spread your pictures”

He has every right to be upset and hate me forever, but I do feel like him threatening to spread my pictures makes him shitty.

But, give your advice or say what you feel is right.

[Anonymous]

Honestly girl it sounds like regardless of how things ended, you’re better off out of that situation.


There were blaring red flags, like him constantly being on the verge of leaving you or threatening to do so, making accusations, wanting proof of what you’re doing yet I'm sure you rarely ever next to never get any kind of real info about what’s happening on his end.


It’s just too messy. His trust issues are problematic and the thing with LDRs is if there’s no trust there is nothing. You can’t live your life running yourself ragged trying to keep a guy who is so ready to leave you, like you’re whole panic attack over fucking build a bear should’ve never even been an issue. That just isn’t a healthy relationship to be in, and I hope once you’ve had some space from him you’ll be able to see that as well.

[lightbulb27]

Take some time to review everything you learned, what the attraction was and where it came from within you. Evaluate that in yourself what needs to be improved.

I dont' hear anything too odd.

Get to know yourself, your needs, your limits. Learn.

[AviatorTom]

Learn from the relationship... and move on.

[Anonymous]

You didn't do anything real bad, and this is obviously a control freak.

[strateguy632]

block him and you won't see it