Need help, I think I fucked up. What to do?

[Anonymous]

We had a long phone call last night

And I decided to send him a meme today, he opened it, but didn't say anything.

And I send him a text some minutes later "are you alive?".

He then again saw it and didn't respond.

I already feel anxious about this and cannot help but feel even more anxious.

What to do?

[David94358]

Means nothing, I do that all the time to my wife.. who I love.. she will text me and if I'm at work and busy.. she will send me some Instagram link to some videos or something.. I will look at the text know it's not something important and get back to what i was doing.

[Anonymous]

What type of message was it

[Asker]

It was a meme... a harmless one. He didn't reply, maybe he is busy, but he didn't say a thing... so I messaged him "are you alive?"... as a joke again because we stayed up till 1AM talking for 5 hours on the phone.

[Opinion Owner]

If it was totally Harmless I would not worry about it

[Asker]

He works in a bank and it was about people not paying their debt... so it wasn't anything to offend him

[Opinion Owner]

If it was harmless, you were definitely over thinking it.. Just let it go and move on

[HelpfulWoman]

just wait.

[Asker]

Wait for what?

[HelpfulWoman]

for a response. instead of being a weird ass who keeps posting

[sawno]

Wait and see

[Asker]

I'm waiting, but still no response

[sawno]

Will probably take a while but anything you message at this point will make it worse.

[Asker]

Do you think I was in wrong for messaging what I did?

[sawno]

I'll give you the benefit of the doubt considering this question was posted word for word on two accounts and answer honestly one more time. I think you were wrong to message the "are you alive?" that was rude and entitled.

[Asker]

Do you think I should apologize or something?

[sawno]

You should give him space and wait, you can apologize after.