Let Me explain.
So 2 weeks ago, I let my girlfriend go out with her gf's, and I've always let her go out, I'm not the type of guy to not let her go out and lock her into her house. So w.e she went out for drinks and said she would call me when she got home. Anyways, so sunday the next day I called her and asked her if she wants to chill, and she said no cause she was tired so I was like okay cool, I'm gonna go chill with my boys then and ill call you when I get home, and she's like okay.
So monday After I finished work I called her again and she said she was tired from work and didn't wanna see me, so I was like oh okay I'm gonna go chill with my boys again.
Then tuesday I do the same thing call her after work and she gives me the same excuse and I did the same thing.
Now I didn't think anything of this till wednesday, when I called her and she said no again. Then that same night she calls me at 10 o clock and tells me she's going to bed, now I've been dating her for 2 years and this is the first time she's ever said that to me. So I was like umm okay ill call you when I get home. So when I got home that night I called her at 11 and she didn't answer so I thought she was sleeping. So I was like okay w/e.
So now its thursday and I call her again after work, and she says the same thing, so I went to go see my friends, BUT this time she calls me at 9 o clock and tells me she's going to bed. So now I'm like okay something is going on. So I went to her house, and would you know it, she's not home. So she calls me at work on friday, and says sorry I missed your calls, I was sleeping, and I snapped and said to her " WERE THE FUCK WERE YOU LAST NIGHT?!" and she says to me " ITS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS" so I told her I never wanna see her again. So its friday night now, and I broke up with her, and my buddy George says to me, yo go wait down the street from her house, and see who drops her off at night. So she came home at 4:30 AM with a cab. So I was like k this is messed up...
She called me Saturday, and I kept telling her to tell me who she is seeing and why she is doing this to me now, and why she just didn't leave me 2 years ago... What should I do? is she seeing some1 else?
She also said she needs time to think about things, but what?! This is the first girl I've ever treated with respect, and not cheated on, and she tells me that she needs to think about things, what can she be thinking about?! Please help me people, I'm going nuts
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Sounds like she is seeing someone else. Even if not, this behavior is unacceptable. You said the relationship was over, now end it and move on. Stop trying to find out the details because it doesn't matter. You gonna feel better when you know who she's been with and what she has been doing? No, you won't. The relationship is over. Stop wasting your time on a girl who is gonna treat you this way. Put your time and effort into someone more worthy.
Well if you are going to try to make things work she has some explaining to do. If you want it to work don't push because you will only push her away. Don't just let her off the hook so easily though. If she thought you were home in bed and came over and you weren't there how would she feel?