FWB doesn't want a relationship anymore, advice?

[Anonymous]

I was with a girl for 3 months as friends with benefits she always wanted relationship but I didn't but I was treating her well as a girlfriend but one day she stopped contacting me and I start missing her a lot so I start falling for her and I told her I want relationship but she refused! She said she wants to be single and after 2 weeks I heard she was seeing someone else! I really don't understand what kind of game is this I mean the only thing missing was the relationship and I gave it to her but she didn't want when I was ready she was always waiting for it..I need help to feel good about myself please guys and girls..is it my fault?

[Anonymous]

Face it, you didn't really ever want a relationship with her. Just once you realized you couldn't have her, you were willing to lie to her to get her to come back.

[vmw2008]

It wasn't a game, she wanted to date you, you didn't take her seriously, so now she's dating someone else. Should've taken the opportunity while you had it.

[Amorina]

She got tired of waiting. She felt you didn't appreciate and respect her enough to make a relationship out of it, so she got over you.

[Anonymous]

You hurt her and she won't forgive you.