He left me when I needed him the most I'm so alone and I want him back please help me he's seems perfectly fine without me how should I get him back?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend broke up with me over text saying he was too immature for a relationship I cried and cried and he knew I did. The next day at school in the mourning he sat with me and he seemed so unaffected and later at lunch he was just sitting there with his friends laughing and smiling and I started sobbing at the lunch table and everyone saw INCLUDING HIM a guy at my table gave me a hug then I turned around and saw my ex right behind me he asked if I wanted a hug so I held onto him and cried for a minute or so then he said "well this has gone on for awhile" so I just fell back down and he left but later he asked if I was okay and walked me to class. That night I talked to him and he made me so angry he said "I'm doing really good all the guys think I'm awesome (he ran two miles in less than 12 minutes) and all the girls think I'm cute" and then my friend said he told her he hasn't liked me for awhile, which would make sense because he said I love you less and even wouldn't let me make out with him really, and I was so pissed off and the next mourning at school I saw him come in and I walked right up to him and said something along the lines of "what the fuck? You haven't liked me for awhile? Your so cruel!!!" He denied it and said he didn't know what to say to me this sent me over the edge for some reason I looked him in the eyes and screamed "I hate you!!!" He said he was sorry then I held his hand and said I was sorry and that I still loved him and I hugged him a bunch I took a flower and put it in his pocket and we went off to class. I want him back so very badly and he acts so okay and I'm such a broken mess. Please help! He said he still wants to help me with my depression and he is very caring but I want him as a boyfriend agian. He knows I miss him and want him back and that I still love him and I text him a lot because he's my only help sometimes and I think that's why he really left me.

[AnayaWilliams]

You have to let him go maybe he just doesn't feel the same way or maybe he isn't ready for a relationship. My ex lead me on and then broke up with me right out of blue and I didn't see it coming. He did it maturely and just face to face. My ex was my first love but just because they break up with you doesn't mean the world stops spinning. I mean sure you will be broken for a couple of weeks or months but with time you will forget him I promise. It took me a while to get over my ex about 7 months, we go to the same high school together but I don't talk to him whatsoever, it used to be hard for me but its not anymore. My ex made me cry when he broke up with me, I tried to hold it in but it was just to hard and i tugged onto his arm and he was just like I have to get back to my friends. So I talked to him before the bell rung and i cried on his shoulder he didn't know how to respond or how to react. So we just left and I went my separate way. My ex knew how much I wanted him back and how much I loved him but he still left me. I've realized he is a player and he is good at making girls think he like them when he is obviously probably just interested in sex. Sometimes people just fall out of love with each other, sometimes you keep trying to put the pieces back together but it doesn't work. My ex and I never really got to know each other we met in middle school and just decided to start going out. You'll get through I promise it wasn't easy for me but now that I see it he doesn't deserve me. Sometimes you just out grow people or you lose feelings for them.

[Mgoods]

Awww, I'm really sorry you're going through this hun. The thing is, he was right to end things if he wasn't happy. He seemed to have a very mature and respectful approach, give or take a couple of comments.

I know you're down and he was your support, but you actually have to let him go now and look for other forms of support.

What about your friends, do you talk to them about the things that get you down?

[Asker]

I did tell my friend about what he said but then she slapped him in the face and I feel bad for him

[jeanbean]

From the looks of it, I really don't think he cares for you as much as you care for him, it's just a bad relationship. You need to stop clawing after a guy that doesn't want a relationship with you and find someone who will give back what you put into a relationship. Trying to get him back will only make things worse.

[Asker]

Thanks I just miss him a lot and it's hard to deal with because I literally see him everywhere lmao

[jeanbean]

I know, trust me. It's a pain like no other, but we all get through it. Good luck with whatever you choose to do.

[Anonymous]

The problem is he has already moved on and made his desishion so u won't get back he's going to be nice to u cause he dose still care it's just he dosn't want a relationship an dont think he's perfectly normal guys r always going to try there best to block it out when they r in public but I promis u he's cryed plunty of times alone

[maroonbro]

Let him go, you can't really do anything if a person doesn't love you back and there's no point clinging on. you're still young and soon enough you'll find a guy who lovs you just as you love him. it's tough, yeah but hang on and give it time

[Asker]

Thank you that helps a lot :D he is still caring but not too much anymore and it's hard to let him go because we've gone on all these adventures and have basically said everything there is to know about each other and he knows me inside and out and we had no issues just 2 days before the break up

[maroonbro]

I know how you feel, I've been through it a lot. but if he lost interest there's no point in going back to him when there are a lot of good guys out there eagerly wishing they had someone like you as their girl. good luck hope my answer helped you

[Anonymous]

get with me