My boyfriend broke up with me over text saying he was too immature for a relationship I cried and cried and he knew I did. The next day at school in the mourning he sat with me and he seemed so unaffected and later at lunch he was just sitting there with his friends laughing and smiling and I started sobbing at the lunch table and everyone saw INCLUDING HIM a guy at my table gave me a hug then I turned around and saw my ex right behind me he asked if I wanted a hug so I held onto him and cried for a minute or so then he said "well this has gone on for awhile" so I just fell back down and he left but later he asked if I was okay and walked me to class. That night I talked to him and he made me so angry he said "I'm doing really good all the guys think I'm awesome (he ran two miles in less than 12 minutes) and all the girls think I'm cute" and then my friend said he told her he hasn't liked me for awhile, which would make sense because he said I love you less and even wouldn't let me make out with him really, and I was so pissed off and the next mourning at school I saw him come in and I walked right up to him and said something along the lines of "what the fuck? You haven't liked me for awhile? Your so cruel!!!" He denied it and said he didn't know what to say to me this sent me over the edge for some reason I looked him in the eyes and screamed "I hate you!!!" He said he was sorry then I held his hand and said I was sorry and that I still loved him and I hugged him a bunch I took a flower and put it in his pocket and we went off to class. I want him back so very badly and he acts so okay and I'm such a broken mess. Please help! He said he still wants to help me with my depression and he is very caring but I want him as a boyfriend agian. He knows I miss him and want him back and that I still love him and I text him a lot because he's my only help sometimes and I think that's why he really left me.
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You have to let him go maybe he just doesn't feel the same way or maybe he isn't ready for a relationship. My ex lead me on and then broke up with me right out of blue and I didn't see it coming. He did it maturely and just face to face. My ex was my first love but just because they break up with you doesn't mean the world stops spinning. I mean sure you will be broken for a couple of weeks or months but with time you will forget him I promise. It took me a while to get over my ex about 7 months, we go to the same high school together but I don't talk to him whatsoever, it used to be hard for me but its not anymore. My ex made me cry when he broke up with me, I tried to hold it in but it was just to hard and i tugged onto his arm and he was just like I have to get back to my friends. So I talked to him before the bell rung and i cried on his shoulder he didn't know how to respond or how to react. So we just left and I went my separate way. My ex knew how much I wanted him back and how much I loved him but he still left me. I've realized he is a player and he is good at making girls think he like them when he is obviously probably just interested in sex. Sometimes people just fall out of love with each other, sometimes you keep trying to put the pieces back together but it doesn't work. My ex and I never really got to know each other we met in middle school and just decided to start going out. You'll get through I promise it wasn't easy for me but now that I see it he doesn't deserve me. Sometimes you just out grow people or you lose feelings for them.0