You have to let him go maybe he just doesn't feel the same way or maybe he isn't ready for a relationship. My ex lead me on and then broke up with me right out of blue and I didn't see it coming. He did it maturely and just face to face. My ex was my first love but just because they break up with you doesn't mean the world stops spinning. I mean sure you will be broken for a couple of weeks or months but with time you will forget him I promise. It took me a while to get over my ex about 7 months, we go to the same high school together but I don't talk to him whatsoever, it used to be hard for me but its not anymore. My ex made me cry when he broke up with me, I tried to hold it in but it was just to hard and i tugged onto his arm and he was just like I have to get back to my friends. So I talked to him before the bell rung and i cried on his shoulder he didn't know how to respond or how to react. So we just left and I went my separate way. My ex knew how much I wanted him back and how much I loved him but he still left me. I've realized he is a player and he is good at making girls think he like them when he is obviously probably just interested in sex. Sometimes people just fall out of love with each other, sometimes you keep trying to put the pieces back together but it doesn't work. My ex and I never really got to know each other we met in middle school and just decided to start going out. You'll get through I promise it wasn't easy for me but now that I see it he doesn't deserve me. Sometimes you just out grow people or you lose feelings for them.
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Awww, I'm really sorry you're going through this hun. The thing is, he was right to end things if he wasn't happy. He seemed to have a very mature and respectful approach, give or take a couple of comments.
I know you're down and he was your support, but you actually have to let him go now and look for other forms of support.
What about your friends, do you talk to them about the things that get you down?
From the looks of it, I really don't think he cares for you as much as you care for him, it's just a bad relationship. You need to stop clawing after a guy that doesn't want a relationship with you and find someone who will give back what you put into a relationship. Trying to get him back will only make things worse.
The problem is he has already moved on and made his desishion so u won't get back he's going to be nice to u cause he dose still care it's just he dosn't want a relationship an dont think he's perfectly normal guys r always going to try there best to block it out when they r in public but I promis u he's cryed plunty of times alone
Let him go, you can't really do anything if a person doesn't love you back and there's no point clinging on. you're still young and soon enough you'll find a guy who lovs you just as you love him. it's tough, yeah but hang on and give it time
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