I can't forget my ex girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

She is in my normal dreams. She is in my sexual dreams. When I masturbate, I am thinking about her. She was so beautiful, pretty, kind sweet. I can't forget her. It's like ı can't love anyone except her. We were together for 2 years but ıt was intense love relationship. What I am gonna do? What should I do? please suggest something.

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude, it sounds like you really cared about her. Breakups are tough, I've been there. A couple things that might help:

- Give it time. It's only been a bit, your feelings are still raw. As the months pass, she'll slowly fade from your everyday thoughts.

- Keep yourself busy. Hang with the boys, pick up a new hobby, anything to get your mind off her when those memories pop up. An idle mind wanders more.

- Watch some funny stuff before bed. Laughter releases good chemicals in the brain that make it harder to have sad dreams.

- Start going to the gym if you don't already. Working out is a great way to release emotions and boost your confidence to put yourself back out there whenever you're ready.

- Consider talking to someone, like a counselor. They can help you unpack those lingering feelings in a healthy way so you can properly move on.

- Try not to beat yourself up if you mess up and think of her still sometimes - it's a process. Just get back to staying active and focusing on you.

You'll get through this man, just take it day by day. It takes time, but I promise you'll be cool someday without even a second thought about her. Keep your head up, your boys have your back!

[Asker]

I can't say anything you said. How helpful you are thank you. I am appriaciate to you. Thank. It s really suppprtive there is behind my back boys. Thanks

[Oliverlogan263]

No problem man, I'm always here if you need someone to talk to. Breakups are the worst but we've all been through it, so you're definitely not alone in feeling this way. It sucks that you're still thinking about her so much, but just try to remember all the good times you had together without dwelling on the end. She'll always have a special place in your heart as your first real love. But like I said, just give it some time and do your best to keep busy with the boys. We'll be here to distract you and lift your spirits. You'll get through this and be your awesome self again before you know it!

[Asker]

Thanks I am following you thanks

[Oliverlogan263]

You’re welcome man anytime and thank you

[TommyMountainFigure]

You 'can't' forget her? Of course you can, you just don't want to.

The first step is to admit it is over, and she is now dead to you. 2nd step is to think about all the things you hated about her. 3rd step is to play music like the Prodigy - you're no good for me, etc etc

Less than a week later, you'll be cured if you follow those steps. Those 3 steps can be worked on in any order by the way!

[avery58]

Try to actively avoid thinking about her. Focus on yourself instead of on your ex.

[Anonymous]

How do u both look

[Asker]

Visually? Nice not bad

[Opinion Owner]

Describe , both of your looks

[Asker]

I am short 170 she was also 168-170. We close same weight too. She was brunette ı was brown haired so like that etc...

[Asker]

Height is cm. You didn't write back?

[Opinion Owner]

Weights? Features?

[Asker]

Weights are 65-58. Features means what. Which features do you mean?

[Opinion Owner]

Hair face eyes