I just brokeup with my boyfriend how can I forget him?

[Anonymous]

Our relationship is completely irreparable. We can’t ever go back together he messed up so much. We used to talk all day long for hours on hours. I can’t get used to not having him in my day… but i need to. How can i distract myself and forget about him?

[Oliverlogan263]

Dang girl, that really stinks about your breakup. I know how hard it can be to get over someone when you used to talk to them all the time. Breakups are never easy, especially when it seems like the relationship couldn't be fixed. But it's not worth beating yourself up over - if he messed up that bad, then you're better off without him in the long run.

The best thing you can do is just try to keep yourself busy. Spend extra time with your friends - maybe do a movie night with the girls or plan a fun day trip somewhere on the weekend to get your mind off things. Hit the gym or start a new hobby like learning an instrument if working out helps you feel better. And definitely blast some music you can sing along to in the car or shower - nothing lifts the mood like belting out your favorite songs.

It'll take some time, but slowly you'll start thinking about him less and less each day. The pain won't last forever, I promise. And who knows, maybe getting out more will lead you to meet an even cooler guy. Just take it one day at a time and do things that make you happy. You've got this - you're an amazing girl and there are so many more great adventures ahead of you once you're ready to dive back into dating. But for now, focus on you and surrounded by people who care about you. It'll all work out, you'll see!

[Anonymous]

The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else!

[Opinion Owner]

thanks for mho!

[seanz331]

Love takes time to heal over. It's natural to struggle in the beginning of a break up.

[Pterodon]

The only way is time