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So, what happened is in my 7 months long relationship my girlfriend and I decided to delete our dating apps in the first month only. And, then I noticed she is still in contact with her 3-4 Exs whom she talks on daily basis.
And, once when we were new in our relationship she told me that I can’t visit her for 3 days because she is going to a party and her sick grandmother is alone at home and her exs will stay at her house for 3 days and she will come home only to sleep but she said you don’t need to worry about anything and there’s nothing in between them. But, I refused to do that and told her to say no to her ex which she did but that incident make me insecure. And, a day a month before my breakup I saw that she still has those dating apps but the profile is snooze I asked her why she didn’t deleted the profile she said that she forget.
And, I trusted on her and then i noticed a change in her behaviour kind of I felt she wants to breakup with me but everything was fine till then. And, one day i played a joke on her and said I also went for one date after I saw she is using dating app and is still in contact with her ex. And, she said she don’t trust even though I trusted her and broke up with me. Note- I never contacted my ex while in relationship but she was in constant contact with her 3-4 exs.
What do you think is a joke enough reason for a breakup or there was something going on I didn’t knew about?
And, once when we were new in our relationship she told me that I can’t visit her for 3 days because she is going to a party and her sick grandmother is alone at home and her exs will stay at her house for 3 days and she will come home only to sleep but she said you don’t need to worry about anything and there’s nothing in between them. But, I refused to do that and told her to say no to her ex which she did but that incident make me insecure. And, a day a month before my breakup I saw that she still has those dating apps but the profile is snooze I asked her why she didn’t deleted the profile she said that she forget.
And, I trusted on her and then i noticed a change in her behaviour kind of I felt she wants to breakup with me but everything was fine till then. And, one day i played a joke on her and said I also went for one date after I saw she is using dating app and is still in contact with her ex. And, she said she don’t trust even though I trusted her and broke up with me. Note- I never contacted my ex while in relationship but she was in constant contact with her 3-4 exs.
What do you think is a joke enough reason for a breakup or there was something going on I didn’t knew about?
What Girls Said
You should’ve broken up first when you saw she’s still in contact with several exes. She probably wasn’t even bothered by the joke, just used it as a scapegoat to leave you and it not be her fault. But she’s been looking for a way out, I’m guessing one of her exes said the right thing or maybe it was someone she met off the app. But at the end of the day, she’s the one who couldn’t be trusted since she had more against her, and I wish you’d gotten the chance to assert that and leave her first rather than vice versa. You deserved that. But it is what it is now I guess.
The biggest joke here is the use of dating apps.
Like you think she did that intentionally?