Why do a lot of girls say that they broke up with their kid's father because he was gaslighting them and he was a narcissist?

[Anonymous]

[DishLady]

Because THAT is most likely what happened. (What kind of question is this. Are you gaslighting women who struggled with toxic partners, little chippy?)

[Asker]

it was just a question. Honestly I'm getting sick of your responses on some of these questions. Your old ass needs to get a life.

[DishLady]

My pleasure. Stop trolling the site if you're not ready to hear honest answers...

[Asker]

Goodbye

[Anonymous]

Because most women do not want to own the role they play in a relationship. These types of women are perpetual victims. Because even if he really did do her wrong she still CHOSE him.

[Asker]

Even if she chose him who is to say he was like this from the beginning? A lot of guys put on a facade and then switch up when the baby comes

[Opinion Owner]

So what you're telling me now in addition to being a victim she's also too stupid to see through and act? You're really not helping her case.

[Asker]

I understand what you're saying but how can you tell when it's an act when in the beginning they show great characteristics and then completely switch. Sometimes there are no red flags

[Opinion Owner]

Time mainly. What generally makes "quality" women bond to men is the same thing that makes them unable to detach from a loser. Bad women rather than keep their head and vet the man properly, these women dive head long into to feelings ignoring every single red flag that pops up. And they wonder why they fail. Because they didn't meet that guy. Typically they created that guy in thier head.

[Asker]

Basically you're saying that there are always red flags but we choose to ignore them because they make us feel good?

[Opinion Owner]

Essentially. Men do this to. But we're less prone to because women have tendency to indulge thier emotions more. This is why i said the same thing that allows you to bond and tolerate the stupid 💩 men do without divorcing them and whatnot. Is the same thing that makes you not accept when you f***ed up and chose a bad guy. Many women rather than folding that hand choose to double down on it. And typically the biggest determinant of this is lack self respect. This is why you see women get it right on the first try with a man while other women repeat the same mistake time and again. Because the successful woman generally knows her worth and will tolerate nothing less! While the woman who fails time and typically doesn't even know what to look for in a quality man. Which is why she falls for every lie that comes her way.

[Opinion Owner]

I take no joy in saying this I wish no woman was like this. But they are.

[Asker]

I think you're entitled to your opinion but I don't think it's reality. When you go on social media there are tons of women that are single moms who complain that guys flipped the script on them. It is more common now than ever. I don't think every woman is lying. I think men have to be held more accountable for their actions

[Opinion Owner]

And that's just the type of thinking that keep this happening.

It's funny I'm critical of women, but I'll have women ask me on this site do you hold men to the same standard. And my response is always the same. I hold men to a HIGHER standard. Because guys should know better. If a guy is duped by a woman I have no compassion for him. Because EXPECT a man to have more sense.

Either way it's fine. I find the posts from women on this site mostly amusing. Sad, but amusing. Because watching most women here try to navigate relationships is like watching a blind person trying to use I microscope. How can you do anything but laugh. Most aren't good people but they're so adorably clueless on top of that that it's kind of fitting.

[Red_Arrow]

Because that is what happened. Why don't you understand that?

[rosemilk]

because sadly it's a pretty common way for humans to act (not just men, by the way)

[Danny_dan92]

Because the love faded