Can I ask for money back from a girl who pretended to like me?

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I was talking to a girl and she found out that I was going out of the country for few days on a business trip. So we dated and she told me that could I bring her two bottles of expensive foreign liquor that you can't import. Meaning there's no company selling it from that country but if your bring it back it's perfectly okay. So after I gave her the two bottles next day she blocks me and ghosts.

I feel like the only reason we dated what so she can get those bottles. In this case do you think I should send her the receipts and ask her to pay me back using the present conversion rates? I really feel used and angry.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

No my man. You chalk it up as a loss. Move on. Lesson learned. Is it really that much money that it would make your financial situation unstable? Probably not. Is it worth the headache of dealing w her? Probably not. She stiffed you right after you gave her the bottles, what makes you think she’s going to reimburse you. Most men would rather just take the L. Even in situations like child support. If a man got custody rights of a child most men don’t ask for child support cause it’s not worth dealing w her. Move on.

Chazmatazz269 · Accepted Answer

You can ask, for sure. It’s the expectation of repayment that can lead to resentment. Resentment is poison. Avoid at all costs.

luvstoned4him · Accepted Answer

I selected no but it wasn't because it was a gift. I know women like these and you aren't going to see a dime from this so best to just accept the loss, learn from it and move on

Ms_Facesitter · Accepted Answer

You can, but you won't get it back. It was a gift, you Gave them to her. You have been scammed, you have been used. Keep this in mind as a lesson for your next dating partner.

AviatorTom · Answer

Give up on the idea of getting anything for the bottles. Count this as a learning experience, and don't do it again.

You know, you could have said that you'd be happy to buy the bottles for her, and ask her for the money.

DishLady · Answer

You should venmo her...

LiamJHayden · Answer

That is life. Just like when a guy pretends to like a girl and then dumps her after bedding her.

MisterWack · Answer

The girl used you, march in and demand she hand it back for breaking your heart into a million pieces!

Abbycado · Answer

No, because you didn't have to do it. That was voluntary.

exitseven · Answer

It is sort of a gift. Think of this as one of life's lessons and be thankful it was only a couple of bottles of booze.

RavVid · Answer

The two options aren't mutually exclusive. Highly crap of her.

Anonymous · Answer

You can do what you want but you're never gonna get it from her.

Dongie · Answer

Yep. Going to need to get that money plus. You know, she has to learn when she uses and wipes her nasty feet on someone it's gonna cost dearly.

ohmyguy · Answer

No see it a tuition fee for the education you recieved

Anonymous · Answer

You got burned and hopefully learned a lesson, my collective book of lessons cost me a few hundred but now they're paying for themselves

OddBeMe · Answer

Hack her phone and steal naked pics. Blackmail. And personal use,

shortster · Answer

You can ask, but I don't think that you will get anything back.

Anonymous · Answer

Don't waste your time. Learn from this and never let it happen again.

anon1903 · Answer

You could have said no

Guacamole409 · Answer

The laws vary from state to state.

Billlewis · Answer

No, absolutely not.

StudyingAuthor · Answer

Yeah... get your money back!

strateguy632 · Answer

That would be very low.

melnc · Answer

😂😂😂😂😂

Anonymous · Answer

Ha! Yeah, right!

Unit1 · Answer

You got scammed

Luckycharms12 · Answer

You can but I doubt you will get it back

noohair · Answer

Lesson Learned, I hope.

Chthou95 · Answer

People already do this subconsciously.

Can I ask for money back from a girl who pretended to like me?

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