Has anyone noticed how exes almost always come back after you moved on?

[Anonymous]

This has usually happened with my exes

It never happened to me

[Summeroflove]

It does happen a lot even when they’re the ones who rejected somebody. What it is they are jealous that especially if somebody finds someone better then themselves, that really tends to hurt the most especially if they know it’s not just a rebound. It also causes them to loose some power and control. They intended on hurting you just for you to move on.

In their heads they are the best that you could have found. They thought you would forever sit around and miss them and yeah you have to grieve a relationship but eventually most people will find someone else.

It’s also another major problem when they never found someone or they found people but nothing stable. If he or she went out sleeping around having casual sex while the other person focused on themselves, focused on getting over the breakup, and focused on finding another person whose worth his or her salt. You really have the upper hand.

Don’t take a ex like that back. They just want to come back in to suck the life right back out of you. They aren’t your boyfriend or girlfriend anymore therefore you’re not obligated to put up with their shit.

[sawno]

Hasn't happened to me so far. Perhaps on me being the one who came when she moved on if she did, but that one I don't think counts since there wouldn't have been an earlier moment when she would have been open to it. I let her know I still love her at a time I felt she may be open to it, but she wasn't.

Meanwhile on my end the door is open for the right person her included since we broke up after failing to make the distance work rather than because we didn't love each other. But she'd have to approach before I am with someone new, once I find someone new the door wouldn't be open anymore.

[natured]

That's why I blocked him so he can go hit the rocks
if it's over it's over, there's no back and forth with me
BUt it's just me though lol

[CuriousHubby]

They realize how good I was and usually try the same things that made us break up!

Never go back to an ex they don't change just hide better.

[Bricealan]

In several cases, yes, and I never understood it, including my prior wife of 20 years ago. To bad that some never seem to be satisfied or happy with a person they chose.

[Keyboardkat]

It happened to me once. But the second time (same girl) she didn't come back.

[dudeinohio]

I never communicate with or take back an ex. They are ancient history. I move forward, never backwards.

[Nikki1989]

My exes never went away.

[strateguy632]

That is rare