Do exes ever come back?

[Anonymous]

It's been 3 months and he is in a new relationship that he jumped into after a month. I respect that but I can't help but have a little hope. Do they ever come back?

[thetheme]

Even though everyone is different, exes try to come back to be "friends" and to keep you on a string just in case, but they have no intention of anything more. Some get lonely, some "backup plans" didn't work out, and some just can't move on. You say it's been 3 months and he got into a relationship 1 month after you broke up? All he did is just move on, nothing less. Some exes try to come back for different reasons and have their own agendas on doing so. Girls are always chased or have a replacement in line after a break up most of the time, so it's safe to say that girls go back to exes less than guys do.

Some believe that "an ex is an ex for a reason". There are many that will beg for their ex, more guys than girls. Some are great that get dumped and get told excuses, but their ex still wants them "in their life" until their done with them. So for many girls there's hope for a guy to come back unless he figures he would be wasting his time somehow. For guys however it's a very slim chance that a girl will come back for a relationship. I feel that moving on is the best way for guys after a break up.

[mikailSF]

well said man. I am hoping to get my ex back after I f'd up, but she is pretty clear about me leaving her alone...

[mikailSF]

I think it all depends on the deepness of love they shared and whether the party is willing to work on the mistakes so they don't happen again. Personally, I just lost my ex, and I vowed to myself to work on the things that made us break up. This includes reading about my problems and going to therapy to address these issues. Hopefully, she sees how much I care and what I am willing to do to have her back. If not, at least I know that I have done everything I can to ensure it doesn't happen with my next potential partner...

[ilisamay]

Yep they often come back, but you need to ask yourself honestly do you really want him back? If he can replace you after 1 month he doesn't sound like that gooda catch, if he can replace you that quick he will do it again, do you really want to be someone's security blanket? You need to move on yourself find someone who adores and appreciates you he obviousally doesn't no offence. Move on go out have fun enjoy yourself

[nonameme]

I hope not because I am getting over him and don't need him to come back and screw things up again.

It could happen but don't hold your breath, after three months, a lot will have changed.

[lucyloo2]

Sometimes they do, sometimes they don't. But, don't stop your dating life! Have fun, and if it's meant to be, it'll happen.

[Mario23]

u never know. if they really love you they will come back. personally that's what I think. don't feel bad. and don't be hard on yourself. just go out and live your life and have fun. try not to think about your ex. like I said have fun and be happy. hope this helps and good luck. hope it all works out for you.

[Anonymous]

no I'm sorry. When people break up, it's for good. Rarely does it happen when people get back together

[1supernova]

I have seen many people get back together many times, I have had an ex come back to me in the past, and I all the time see exes get back together, like a friend of mine and his girl broke up and they got back together after sometime, and I've seen many people get back together countless times, so I don't understand why you said they rarely get back together?

[Xx_DRE_xX]

It depends on if they really care about you enough to give it another chance. I wouldn't count on it though.

[starlight124]

Sometimes they do, and sometimes they don't

[Anonymous]

Nope.

[1supernova]

well I see peoples exes come back to them, like all the time, I can name 5 couples I know that have gotten back together because one came back to the other in the past 6 mos to a year.