What is my ex thinking? What is with the mix signal? Is his how man is?

[Anonymous]

My ex proposed a break for 1 month. It has been 20 days and I feel like I didn’t want to drag and play along this game. So I called him to talk about situation. I asked how he feel so far since the break and if he see the relationship will be improved till the end of break? He said he felt peace and he didn’t think the relationship will be improved, which I agreed that how we gonna improve if we agree to not contact each other? So I say we should break up now and then he acted surprise and asked me if I’m sure? And he said he wanted time to process and let me know later which he did at night.

[melnc]

If you used your mind, you would have realized that the relationship has already broken off, and you have become just a backup plan. Every minute you spend waiting for the relationship to improve is simply a waste of time. All that remains for you is self respect, so wrap it up.

[itsannalee]

You just back up plan for him. Maybe he even has other someone else. Just move on, if someone wants you he won’t do it to you. If there is problem that time, you guys should just find way together to solve the problem. Never let any man who tried to dump you for his own reasons. to come back again. You are too precious.

[sawno]

Looks like he doesn't expect improvement but is simultaniously fine with how it is.

[Asker]

What he is implying with he feel peace without me then?

[Anonymous]

This is very interesting man, I hope you find the answers you are looking for.