Am I over thinking or is he giving me mixed signal's?

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So I recently met this sweet & charming guy off of a dating App. I gave him my phone number & we text each other often. Eventually we Made plans for a date & it was so nice. I feel very comfortable with him. We went on a second date & He picked me up from my house & greeted my brothers & dad who were outside working & he said he wanted to make a good impression & he even offered to help my dad out with some heavy lifting. So I stayed at an airbnb about two days ago & I thought I ask him to come spend the night. He surprised me & said no & that I was moving to fast. So I told him I respect his wishes & would slow things down so later on that night he video called me & was trying to get freaky on cam & lol I'm like hold up you said you wanna slow things down Like make up your mind. So I started get into it & the video cut off I think he busted & left me hanging but he claimed his phone died. So the next day I said you owe me & told his ass quit playing games & get us an airbnb so he said he would book it so later on that night I talked with him on the phone about picking a cute room & he started acting strange he said so would you act crazy if it didn't work out between us & were friendly friends & he did this thing where your about to say something but then stop yourself & say nah never mind. He said he doesn't want to lead me on he wants to take things slowly. Does it seem like I'm pressuring him? Because he seems hot then cold I don't know
Am I over thinking or is he giving me mixed signal's?
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