Am I over thinking or is he giving me mixed signal's?

[Girlsneedanswers]

So I recently met this sweet & charming guy off of a dating App. I gave him my phone number & we text each other often. Eventually we Made plans for a date & it was so nice. I feel very comfortable with him. We went on a second date & He picked me up from my house & greeted my brothers & dad who were outside working & he said he wanted to make a good impression & he even offered to help my dad out with some heavy lifting. So I stayed at an airbnb about two days ago & I thought I ask him to come spend the night. He surprised me & said no & that I was moving to fast. So I told him I respect his wishes & would slow things down so later on that night he video called me & was trying to get freaky on cam & lol I'm like hold up you said you wanna slow things down Like make up your mind. So I started get into it & the video cut off I think he busted & left me hanging but he claimed his phone died. So the next day I said you owe me & told his ass quit playing games & get us an airbnb so he said he would book it so later on that night I talked with him on the phone about picking a cute room & he started acting strange he said so would you act crazy if it didn't work out between us & were friendly friends & he did this thing where your about to say something but then stop yourself & say nah never mind. He said he doesn't want to lead me on he wants to take things slowly. Does it seem like I'm pressuring him? Because he seems hot then cold I don't know

[TwistedTube]

He doesn't really want to stay, no
But he doesn't really want to go
He's hot then he's cold
He's yes then he's no
he's in then he's out
He's up and he's down
(He probably isn't ready for a relationship RN and just DTF, but let's his emotions go in the moment. He's unsure so he doesn't want to accidentally lead you on and hurt you)

[Siren777]

First of all don't fall for words from guys, sometimes they will show you in actions here and there but you don't know someone's intentions until you get to know them. Don't make a big deal about it until you're sure. He changed his mind when you gave into him too easily and started to think of you differently. This isn't your fault that you fell for his games. Just know that a guy who likes you won't act different or change overnight when he likes you. He will stick around and keep his promise.

[FlowerSeeds]

Well it does seem strange if a guy likes you he will be on you, think about it.

[Cowboy6666]

Sounds like he is still confused and not sure about you

[Iron_Man]

The guy just wants to have sex slow it down for sure. You don’t know if he just wants a Wham! Bam thank you ma’am situation