How can I go back to being a good person?

[Anonymous]

All of my life, I had people fuck me over and take advantage of my kindness, so I decided to stop caring. One of my ex-friends kept coming back for the past 5 years to fuck me over... I've now got My get back, and she's afraid to leave her house. I didn't do anything physically to her, just mental stuff through social media. Another ex of mine made me lose my kids, so now I made sure she was homeless. As of last, she's been blowing up my phone, crying with nowhere to go, sleeps in her car. I feel heartless I don't care at all that I hurt them. How can I go back to my old self?

[melnc]

Unfortunately, this way of reaction has worked for many people, helping them save time and energy. I’m not saying you should be pretty cruel, but it’s smart to develop a tough side to protect yourself from those who might overstep their limits. You’re not a bad person, but pressure from others might make you act tougher than you really are.

Aim for a balance of 60% dark side and 40% kindness, that's how you should be.

[Asker]

Thank you for the advice

[melnc]

You're welcome

[exitseven]

Why would you want to. Getting revenge on people that have screwed you over is the first step to getting some self respect.

[Asker]

Because it's not me as a person

[exitseven]

I think it fits you good

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[jennifer_bloom]

I never dated you and I am to afraid to leave my house. I stay indoors cause I have steak and sushi I and do not need to leave the house to buy food.

[Staximus]

Why would a woman be afraid to leave her house because of you and how could you lose your kids if you were not doing stupid shit? Time to take a good look in the mirror and accept responsibility for your actions.

[Anonymous]

Why would you want to? Embrace the dark side, we have cookies.😆

[LiamJHayden]

You simply treat people the way you'd like to be treated. Some will take advantage, some will reciprocate. Whatever happens just keep going.

[noohair]

Made you lose your kids? How dod that happen?

[grega239]

Dont.