How do you stop being emotionally attached/obsessed with just an ex?

[daddyslittlemonster]

[ohsheeT]

First you have to love yourself enough to acknowledge all the reasons why is your ex

Is your ex for a reason
You have to acknowledge that reason and then you have to understand this is a learning moment the positive the negatives and also who you are in life who do you want to be in life I don't know what happened between you two but do you like what was happening did you like yourself at that moment did you like him at that moment you have to accept that it's over with because there's somebody else out there waiting for you looking for you they could have passed by you 20 times already but they can feel your energy the look on your face have not loving yourself enough because when you do that your energy is just solid it is bright it is calling people to you but when you're down and out then you look down and out you act down and out and nobody wants to be around that accept it acknowledge it and move on one foot in front of the other this was only a learning experience for you take away the positives I understand the negatives and move on you're wasting time

[The_Confusion]

It's all about the subconscious mind. You can reprogram it using visualizations.

If my wonderful conversation with a guy on here named "demon possessed pope" didn't get deleted due to some "dish lady's" knee-eaten-pussy, I would've linked it here. It talked about a "fishing rod incubus technique" where the guy performing it would leave you numb emotionally.

But I've got an alternative solution. Visualize a flat data cable, connecting your two crotches, and cut it. Repeat this spiritual exercise whenever you feel anything tingling again. Here is a depiction to help you on this journey of reclaiming your crotch:

Flat data cable cutting spiritual technique

Feel free to grow into the strongest version of yourself using this guided self hypnosis meditation:

https://www.youtube.com/embed/dG5cZzbKvW0

[avery58]

I guess try remembering the bad times or how they hurt you, why it didn't work out etc.

Also, talking to new people might help.

[Agape93]

I don't feel it. Once a connection is dropped, its gone and doesn't come back

[Nikki1989]

Dust yourself off and move on. It is not difficult.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

If you can walk on the path described by @LiamJHayden @Noodle_fan and @avery58 it will defo help tremendously

[Noodle_fan]

Do anything that can help distract yourself to think about it, get busy at your job , school, meet and interact with other people , etc

[StevenMcGarrett]

Hmm, I find it best to move on to other people. When you start dating new people, you find out how great they are and that they are better than your ex. Good luck.

[LiamJHayden]

Realize that there are billions of people out there.

[Anonymous]

The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else.

[MrGSpotHer]

I'm an mushroom a alien I can't relate

[Jmmmfi4]

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