Will he forgive me?

[Anonymous]

Me and ny boyfriend are currently having a huge fight and I said some things that were rude and he said i broke him as a man and hasn't gotten back to me. Will he forgive me.

[Caroline91]

One of the biggest things for most men is to be shown respect. If you want him to forgive you, you need to apologize and be sure to say you are apologizing because you were disrespectful to him. If he does forgive you, then you need to change the way you behave when you do have disagreements. When my husband and I have a disagreement, I do not raise my voice to him, I do not name call, and I stick to taking about the issue the disagreement is about. He does the same. That puts us on the same side so we can function as a team to solve the problem.

[Abbycado]

How would anyone here know if he will? We don't know him, you or what the fight was about. I don't get why people think users here read minds.

[boggboss]

Who knows that u think its his fault makes me wonder why you want him to forgive u as it shows u still gave a issue

[boggboss]

Have*

[Asker]

He starts dating me then tells me he lives with his ex girlfriend who refuses to nove out and she keeps blocking me from his account

[boggboss]

So why would u want to contune daring him do u enjoy the drama?

[Asker]

I've never met anyone like him

[boggboss]

Lol so the best u have met is still living with his ex who has access to his socials and u think nothing is going on between them does that not show u that your standards are pretty low

[Asker]

The situation is progressing very slowly

[boggboss]

I dont see how or why that would matter when the facts is this is already a fucked situation

[Asker]

He said he wants time and asked for a couple of days and i don't love him because I disrespected him and was mean

[boggboss]

So u do want or enjoy the drama?

[Asker]

😭 i just want closure

[boggboss]

Why do u think he cares what u want or is even capable of giving u that when the situation is so shadey to start with

[Asker]

I brought that up in the fight and he just said I didn't give him enough time or live him or respect him

[boggboss]

Si if he already has shown u he doesn't care or feel the need to give u closure why do u think or want him to come back do u not see this is as good as its going to get

[melnc]

You messed up, and now you’ll have to sit and stew in it. If he chooses not to forgive you, that’s on you.

[CubaPirate]

You really need to ask him if you sincerely want his forgiveness

[jahaims]

I hope not

[Asker]

Tbh, its his fault

[jahaims]

You control what you say and do not others. Deflecting responsibility is how you cope.

[Asker]

How would you forgive a girlfriend after a bad fight?

[jahaims]

I've been with my wife since 2012 without a "bad fight." If you are mature, you won't have "bad fights."