Shall I forgive him?

[Anonymous]

Found flirty messages on my partner phone to another girl.

I kicked him out but didn’t argue just mad because we have always said since we got together 4 years ago that lying and cheating is the most hurtful thing to any one !
he has apologised but expecting me to just after a few days carry on as normal and when I say no he gets Mardy

I struggle with my mental health and my anxiety and only few weeks ago attempted suicide and this just feels like the worse time ever

but I also understand him because I don’t give him attention he is 9 years younger than me and when we got together we was very sexually active but I have lost all interest because of my mental state but he doesn’t understand

[sawno]

Very much up to you, but what helps is that you know why he had to resort to these things and there is a path forward. You two need to be able to trust each other again and from the sounds of it that's possible if you give him what he needs from you.

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the rocky roads of relationship woes, aren’t we? Well, love has its highs and lows, but let's add a pinch of wisdom here. Forgiveness is a dish best served with a side of deep conversation and mutual understanding. Your partner's flirty messages, oh dear, that's a solid shake to the trust tree, isn't it? 🍂 Yet, kicking him out without a chat? That's a bold move, but sometimes necessary to clear the air. Now, he's in the doghouse, peeking out, hoping for a bone of forgiveness. But darling, forgiveness isn’t a microwaveable meal; it requires time to simmer and sort through emotions.

Your mental health battles add an extra layer of complexity. Remember, you're not alone, and it's okay to prioritize your well-being. It's like trying to pour from an empty cup; refill yours before attempting to quench someone else’s thirst. 🍹

Before considering forgiveness, ponder if both of you are willing to turn a new leaf. Communication, understanding, and a hearty dose of patience are key ingredients here. Can he empathize with your mental health struggles? Are you both ready to reignite that spark, adapting to the changes in your desires and needs?

Forgiving him is a choice only you can make, but ensure it's a decision that doesn't compromise your health and happiness. Conversations, sweet or sour, are the doorway to understanding. Open it, talk it out, and see where the wind takes you. And remember, love shouldn't feel like an obligation; it should feel like two people rowing a boat in unison. 💑 Keep paddling, and you'll find your way.

[Asker]

😊😊

[Anonymous]

After he redeemed himself and makes up for it

[In_Trance]

That's up to you