Fuck that guy, he cheated on you! Just because he says all this bull shit about missing you, well he shouldn't have cheated on you then. Its more understandable if it was like a drunken mistake but he's been doing it for months. He was purposefully doing it with out regard of your feelings. He just regrets getting caught not doing it, otherwise he would not have been doing it for so long. You can eventually forgive him but dont forget what sort of shitty person he is. After he gets his keys back i wouldn't bother wasting a precious nano second on his wasteman ass.
Forgive him? Yes. Get back together with him? No. He ruined it. You have to forgive or your resentment towards him will eat away at you. You need to forgive people in your heart. But that doesn't mean you should get back together with him.
No absolutely not, this wasn't just a mistake, he was knowingly hurting you for months and you deserve much better. Also all his friends knew thats horrible, you can choose to forgive him but taking him back will end in tears. I've been their and I'm sorry to say it just doesn't work, the trust is broken.
No, never ever forgive a cheater. Cheating is not a mistake and he should've thought twice before doing it. I don't think he even has the right to say he loves u. And even if u go back together, if he's cheated on u once he can do it again. If not now, after 10 years
I wish I could say I wouldn't. I gave people more chances then they deserve. They hurt me over and over again. Not saying he would do that. Ultimately it's your choice. You have to have trust to have a working a relationship. Would you be able to trust him again?
He knew what he was doing at the time and continued doing it which shows he doesn't respect you. Now he's sorry, you can forgive him but that doesn't mean take him back. Forgiving will be good for you so you can get pass what he did to you.
Forgive him. but don't take him back. Don't end up like me taking back my ex after he asked for a nudy pic from someone. It really was hard to trust him again
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Forgive him but for you to move on. Don't give him any more than he deserves. Block him/remove him from your life/move on afterwards, as well as his friends. His actions 'for months' makes it habitual/normal.
Cheating on you was toxic, disrespectful and you deserve better. You need time to heal and trust and you won't find that in him again. You'll find it again though, just let him teach you valuable lessons rather than break your trust in/happiness with new guys/possibilities.
Forgive him because that is healthy, but do not get back with him, because he may just feel guilty and wants to get back together to feel better. Even if he is genuinely wanting back together you will never fully trust him again which will never work.
Sure forgive him... don't keep bitterness in your heart... now if he has had sex with another woman while with you break up, start dating other guys... faithful guys and don't EVER take him back. He's shown you he's unfaithful and how much he is capable of hurting you. Don't ever stay with a cheater.
Sorry to hear that this happened.
I see no reason why you should take him back, nor do I see any reason for any contact with him ever again. He showed a complete lack of respect for you. It will be hard to move on, but the sooner the better.
No don't do it. If he really cared he wouldn't have cheated. You deserve so much better and someone is going to give it to you one day.
I think you should forgive him, but that doesn’t mean you should take him back. Holding on to your anger will only hurt you in the end.
Forgive him BUT don't take him back. I repeat, don't ever take him back.
The bible says forgive but never says anything about forgetting. In your case, as he's willing to seek forgiveness, it's ok to forgive him but he must understand the pain he put you through.
Forget that douchebag if you forgive him he will no would do it again and just figure out a way to be more sneaky so you wouldn't find out about it again
Just give him another chance and this time let him know cheating is ok. If you five him permission to cheat there is no reason to lie. Trust will be established again. Problem solved 🤣
I would give him the chance to become friends again, but not a relationship.
NO. Fuck him, fuck his friends, fuck his stupid little key.
I don't believe a single word he said his intentions are pretty obvious and he is trash at hiding them. Anyways, what keys?
Cheating should be unforgivable. And since it wasn't even just ones, makes it even worse. Maybe talk to him for closure. Dont take him back though.
What does this mean?
"Had no idea we both really liked each other too"
I wouldn't, a cheater is a cheater and you will just get hurt again, you don't deserve it! Give it a couple of days or weeks and he'll stop! If it happens once, the chance of repeating is over 70%
If you stay with him you will only end up resenting him; never trusting him and driving yourself crazy trust me, it's not worth wasting time on even if you think it'll make you happy for a minute and he's demonstrated he isn't worth your time.
I recently had a falling out with one my best friends because he was exactly this type of person. I would forgive him for the closure, but don't take him back. If you do, lack of trust will plague the relationship.
You have to forgive him to move on its not worth being bitter. Just have one last serious talk and that's that.
I wouldn't, but the both of you are already twats for sleeping together without putting a ring on it.
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