Ex is speaking to me now after a few weeks of barely contact?

[Anonymous]

My ex and i work together. We broke up but we rarely talk. The break up was more his idea. This week he has been talking a little more to me but not much. A few days ago we walked past each other and he said “have a great evening Miss “ and i told him to have a great evening as well.

He texted me today and said “i see you leave on lunch break you didn’t offer me any” and then texted me a few hours later and asked about my glasses

This morning he said hey to me


He is the one who broke it off

[Simslover92]

If you're wanting to know if he may want to get back together then that won't happen unless he says he wants to. It sucks that you guys work together because it makes things harder to move on but as of right now, he's just probably talking to you again because he misses you but doesn't want to get back together. I'm in the same boat right now. I know I must move on from him because he is not saying he wants to get back together but he still talks to me and sends me things like he used to do when we were together. It's very confusing when exes do this and I see why there must be no contact.

[Asker]

I think your ex might want to get back together but doesn’t know how to say it

[Simslover92]

At this point, I doubt it. It's been over 2 months.

[Oliverlogan263]

Alright, this is kinda a tricky situation since you guys still work together after breaking up. I can see why his texts and stuff would be confusing you. On one hand, it does seem like he's tryna start chatting with you more again over the past few days. Maybe he regrets how things ended or misses talking to you. But at the same time, if he was the one who decided to break it off, then I wouldn't fully trust that he won't change his mind again you know?

Guys can be pretty dumb sometimes, and we don't always know what we want. Part of me would kinda wanna hear him out and find out what's going on in his head, since you probably still have feelings too if I had to guess. But I'd just be really careful about getting too invested again before you're sure he's not gonna flake out on you. Maybe play it cool for now, but you could try talking to him about why he's suddenly hitting you up more when he left things. Get some honest answers so you don't end up more confused.

If he really seems sincere and like he knows what he wants now, I don't think chatting a bit more would hurt. But be prepared that it might not go anywhere either. And definitely don't let yourself get walked all over if he changes his mind again! You gotta look out for yourself first. I hope things work out for you dude, but just protect your heart ya know? Let me know how it goes!

[Abbycado]

Okay, and? What is the question?