So me and this guy had something for some weeks because we liked each other and stuff but then he did some things that hurt me and i went too fast and did not gave him space he needed. It didn’t worked. Because of the hurt and anger i could not see the situation straight and understand his side of what happened. One reason too is because he also did not communicate at all throughout the whole relationship. He wasn't taught to do at home.
After what happened he felt extremely guilty because he said he wanted a serious relationship and was putting effort while in the end he wasn't ready but doing relationship things while he knew i had feelings already. We even had sex. He told me too late.
He kept asking how i have been but avoiding me at school and did not even dare to look at me. I told him to give me some space and that i might want to talk later. So about two months we haven't talked. Now the anger and hurt is over and i understand what was happening i texted him to ask how he has been. We talked for short time and stopped and then a day after the evening he requested to follow me again. He told me it was sweet I texted him and that he was doubting to text me first but i told him to give me space so he didn't. He called me a sweet and nice girl.
Today i saw him at school and all of a sudden he could look at me and smiled even, his eyebrows were up like a greeting thing. And then after some hour i saw him again in some class. He went to the toilet bit had to walk past me. We said hey and then we went back to what we were doing but he turned around and started a conversation all of a sudden. After he went to the toilet and we said bye i wasn't gone yet so he started again a conversation (short one) and said bye again with a smile.
He did not do this for a single day after the breakup and its much different now like we are starting over?
What is happening? Does he want something from me?
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You started texting him. He's only giving you attention now because the other girls he was trying to be with aren't. Men are mostly simple especially at an early age. He sounds like he just smashed you, left for another girl, that girls gone and since you're lingering he's trying to hit again. If you go back and he leaves again don't be surprised because the patterns are there.
Well he did not left for another girl. He just said we were not fitting well as a couple and he thought being single was better. His past relationship sucked and he was hurt very bad. I think being with me was too soon and maybe he did not liked me enough.
But i won't get back with him. Just trying to figure out what he wants because i want nothing more than being friends.
Because neither of you are mature enough to cut contact with an ex
Don't do it, unless you want to breakup again