Why my ex suddenly contact me again?

[Iamgabi]

Me and my ex met on an app. We've dated almost for 3-4 months and ended 2 months ago. (We were not in a relationship!) He said he doesn't like my personality... and I got dumped by him :'(
Yesterday I got message from him. If he still has feelings for me or if all of this is completely about having sex? Or maybe he looking for Christmas dating partner lol

Please give me some advice. Thank you so much.

[quaranta]

He is looking for sex, he straight up asked you to meet tonight. If he wanted to rebound for relationship reasons, he would introduce this discourse, talking about feelings, apologizing and the way you ended it, etc. But he directly asked you to meet tonight. Random sexual urge, couldn't find any better target. You were probably the second, third, last option, and he ran out of options.
He knows it's visible, because he says:"I was worried what you will think".
That didn't change the fact he doesn't like your personality, though.
If you suffered from the breakup, I wouldn't reward him with sex now "on demand", otherwise it's like confirming he can play with you the way he wants, and get no side effects. He must be responsible for his decisions, simply. That is also a good requirement for a good partner in general.
Don't make the mistake to hope that sex = he will change his mind about a relationship with you. It doesn't work like that, plenty of women self-trapping themselves in their own net.
Have sex with him only if you are horny and see him only like a random guy with no strings attached, but after just 2 months, I doubt it would work.

[trina_x]

my ex did this

i quite literally ignored him and he did not stop messaging

so

id say your best bet is probably blocking

[Guy13]

About reclaiming what he let go and having sex. Power thing.

[Jamie05rhs]

Why would it be about sex? Have you given him sex before?

[anwesh92]

He is trying to communicate genuine but a sex motive may also be expected better take another friend with you if you thought to meet