I met my ex when we were 12. We got together at 16. I took her virginity. We split at 18 because of the distance. Now we're both 30. She has been in a relationship for more than 10 years, she's married, have kids etc...
Yet she still comes on the social medias sometimes, trying to talk to me, adding me etc etc. I made it perfectly clear to her a few years ago that I didn't want to talk to her anymore, ever, and that I moved on. So why is she still trying? I don't care about her, I don't think about her or anything, why does she? Is it not considered like mental cheating on her husband? lol
I ignore every demands from her but I'm still curious of her mental state of mind
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Isn't this more or a Girl's Behavior topic? Doesn't matter to me but I can move the question if ya want me too. Costs less than a dollar 😆. So probably she just wanted to reconnect after all those years. After all you did have a connection at a young age and shared some special moments growing up. That isn't emotional cheating unless she starts to get into talking sex and indicating she wants to be with you. If she just keeps it friendly there is no problem with it. However you don't want to and that's your choice.
If I was her husband, I would go crazy knowing my wife is trying to contact the guy who took her virginity. Do really all the wester women think this is normal? lol
So wait just because someone took her virginity they have to be mortal enemies for life? Is that normal?
Not mortal ennemies, but yes, it would be normal that a woman who is married with kids do not try to seek a new connexion with that person yeah. I think most of the guys who read will confirm. If I was the husband and i found that out, i would ask for a divorce lol
She is getting bored on her monotonous relationship and wants something different. Like bored of daily bread so some day you want pizza or something fancy just for a little change to feel better getting back to her monotonous life.
So you think it is normal to go talk to your ex when you're married?
No. She is cheating on her husband and you are the other man.
I am not the other man. I didn't talked to her for years and I ignore her attempts. I just own her soul because I took her virginity (see how it relates on the other topic we're speaking).
I don't say I wouldn't like to cuck her current husband. But I don't want to give her any pleasure^^
If a guy owns some girl's soul, she won't marry anyone else and start a family. That's what you need to understand. A woman will never let any other man touch her if her soul is owned by a specific man, regardless that specific man wants her or rejects her, she won't let herself be touched by anyone else. So no you don't own her soul. She just wants to string you along and get a hold on you so that she can be entertained whenever she feels bored
@crystalline0909 She never gets entertained because I don't respond to her messages nor accept her invitations. And it's been this way for years. Yet she keeps going. So it means she still hardly think about me even if she had kids with another dude that is still there lol.
This is the exact definition of owning a soul. Even the father of her children can't chase me out of her thoughts 😂
And that pretty much develop what I said on the other topic. Why do men are chasing virgin women? Because the guy who takes it own her soul. You can't really posess a woman after she lose her virginity with someone else. She will be emotionnaly bound to the first guy forever, no matter what you do :)
I think you have a big ego and it's hard for you to accept that you are just an option and a source of entertainment or a backup for her. Girls know girls. I'm just telling you the game. Rest is up to you to accept the reality or live in denial to make yourself feel better.
@crystalline0909 I already feel good. As I said at the beggining, this is a really old relationship. I've been over it for more than 10 years now and I don't care, that's why I don't have any contact with this girl lol.
But I am just observing things. And what I observe is : the girl is married with a guy who is giving her everything (paying her really expensive vacations all around the world, paying for an expensive lifestyle etc), she has kids, and yet she comes to me while i ghost her. She's definetly not ugly. If she was bored, she could easily have attention from any random guy. But no, she comes to me everytime even if I don't reply :)
That's the definition of owning a soul.
She is familiar with you in bed and cheating excites people. It's like visiting her old days and living her youth before a husband and kids. It's ok. You can live in denial. It doesn't matter if you ignore or not. She ain't leaving her husband for you. Infact she even married the other guy proves you do not own her soul. But whatever helps you sleep. Now you'll say I sleep pretty good regardless but it's okay 🤣
Of course she isn't leaving her husband for me dah, I don't even reply to her. She doesn't because she can't. I'm pretty sure that if I tried, I could fuck her and maybe even destroy her marriage :)
You are a narcissistic misogynist man living in denial. Whatever gives you peace... believe
Same that the other topic : I take that as a compliment.