How to get over my ex boyfriend when I'm the one who broke up with him due to his emotional unavailability?

[Anonymous]

[Oliverlogan263]

Dang girl, breakups are always tough no matter who does the breaking up. Just because you ended it doesn't make it hurt any less. The good thing is you recognized that he wasn't able to give you what you need in a relationship. As hard as it is, you did the right thing for yourself by not sticking around waiting for things to change when he showed he wasn't willing to meet you halfway.

My advice would be to lean on your good friends right now. Have some girl/boy time to take your mind off things. Playing video games, working out, or starting a new hobby could also help keep you busy. It's important not to dwell - maybe write in a journal to get your thoughts out, but then close the book and do something fun! With time it'll hurt less when you look back. You deserve someone who makes you a priority.

Also don't hold out hope that he'll come back different - you gotta move on in your heart now so you're not waiting around. Focus on bettering yourself and being happy alone first before entertaining anything new. You got this - you said what you needed to say, and now it's time to take care of you!

[Nikki1989]

Healing takes time. Be patient with yourself.

[Adana01]

you'll forget by finding a new one...