Have you ever missed someone so much it hurts?

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Yeah that’s pretty much how I feel but there’s nothing I can do about it.

I’ll come home on busy days and feel so empty thinking about him.

Or I’ll be somewhere that keeps reminding me of him.

Or I’ll meet someone who comes from the same country as him and it reminds me of him.

Sometimes I miss him so much that I wake up from my sleep 🙂 I guess that’s just how it is.

IF you’re curious about what happened you can read my most recent MyTake lol.

My ex ghosted me 2 years after I dumped him

FunkyMonkee · Accepted Answer

Yeah, after my first 2 girlfriend's dumped me. But, the one that hit me the hardest was losing my best friend, Kelly, to her boyfriend. She & I were like brother & sister and I FINALLY found someone that was very much like me and we got on FANTASTICALLY together!! I'd been wishing all my lonely life for a friend like her!!
One day, we made plans for her to come to my place where we could spend a few hours writing and possibly recording music together! She called me from a local store where she just got her Christmas pictures back and couldn't wait to show me her family back in Conn.! She said she'd be over in about 15:00. I waited all day for her to show and she never did!!
A few hours later, she wrote and told me she was in Conn. and HAD "to get away from this crazy place!" She'd let me know when things got settled.
Another few days later, I'd been told that she was back here with her boyfriend and he said she's never allowed to talk to me again!!
I was depressed and cried over this for SEVERAL months!! Almost 2 years!!
While we were still talking, she sent me a few songs that she liked a lot and mentioned other stuff she liked so, I gathered it all together and made a CD of this stuff that I listened to over and over, again almost non-stop for months on end and would cry almost every time I listened to it because of how much I missed her!!
After almost 2 years, I'd FINALLY had enough and decided to write her an e-mail! I didn't CARE what he thought!! I sent it to her Christmas eve night. I got a response from her the next day. She said she doesn't care what Mike says, I can contact her any time I like!! We've been talking to each other again ever since! A year or two later, she divorced him (they married right after he took her away from me and had 2 kids together) and then threw his ass in jail for abusing and molesting the kids on his days to have them! Sadly, both the kids are having some psychological issues because of him. But, at least they're all safe, now and we can be great friends, again.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

We have a soul spirit the heart of brain

But we also have energy I believe that is our true selves

I believe when two energies connect it's deeper than just the soul and a spirit connecting because it is as if they fell in love the two energies to become one

This is what we are all meant to do become one with self one with others and one with the universe

When you date somebody you break up a couple weeks go by a month goes by and it's over with

But when two energies connect and become one you don't want to eat sleep you can't do anything you can't even function it's because those two energies are mourning each other

And the only true way to get over it is to understand energy and that energy within you and everything about it what it can do what it can't do it's very interesting but yes that's the easy thing to do especially if you become one with that person you just have to move on you have to accept it acknowledge it and then move on

Simslover92 · Accepted Answer

I did but it's starting to go away now. Some days it still hurts a bit but I'm slowly but surely getting over the breakup.

NathanDavis · Answer

they live forever in my heart, never gone (=

eagle1951 · Answer

yes and i am right now , hope she's doing well in Heaven

EnjoytheDay777 · Answer

Yeah, like physical pain

Anonymous · Answer

Yes. Myself when i was single.

Have you ever missed someone so much it hurts?

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