Ever get to the point where you miss someone so much that you are aching?

[hiyamotherfers]

These are the times where it sucks so fucking badly. I've been missing someone a lot recently but I'm to stubborn to reach out to him. Unfortunately its one of my exs (one of the last ones) there's a lot of things that I miss about him and I wish that we could talk again. He always knew what to do in the times where I'm having a panic attack and unfortunately I had one last night. I know this is more like a rant than a question, so here's the question, any advice. I just want the pain to go away.

[Puppystarfish23]

Yes I miss my cousin like crazy. Family parties are the worst now because it feels so wrong without him.

He was like a big brother to me and he even said a couple weeks before he died but he wanted me and his sisters to play a big part in his wedding as we are like his little sisters to him.

We all used to be super close as a family but over time we've all gone are separate ways due to just lifestyle and I miss my family so much but if I'm honest I find it so hard to see them now because of work and having to be reminded but he's dead.

It feels wrong but he not here with me and all my cousins growing old with us and laughing about the good old days because he was such a big part of the family. He made every laugh and he was such a kind person.

[DizzyDesii]

I wouldn't say I’m aching but at times I miss people I really vibed with. Sure i can replace em but its not the same

[ElvenMr]

I have someone like that. Finding someone new you really like can help, but you'll probably still miss them sometimes and remember the good times you had with them.

Maybe you could reach out to him for a talk, he might not reply unfortunately.

[PointTaken]

No I don't. Sometimes I miss how the person made me feel but not the person themselves. That's the trick is knowing if it's the person you miss or the feeling once in a while you got when the person did something for you.

[Degenerate]

You could always reach out to him to make things right. You're gonna beat yourself up for not taking a chance.

[hiyamotherfers]

I'm not beating myself up, because I did reach out he just never made it a point to reach back to me

[hiyamotherfers]

it just hurts because you miss the times you had with them you know

[Anarcamus]

well how did you reach out?
Remember giving some extra details can help with more accurate advice.

[hiyamotherfers]

@Anarcamus Through text, email etc

[Anarcamus]

Well , what did you say in those messages?

[Degenerate]

She said @degenerate has such a big dick 😋

[hiyamotherfers]

yeah lop

[hiyamotherfers]

@Anarcamus Nothing much that was different than before

[Degenerate]

Yeah lol my dick is huuuuge

[hiyamotherfers]

😂 we would know wouldn't we

[Anarcamus]

Well still, if you feel safer to discuss in DM just message me. I'd be willing to give advice/feedback to you.

[Degenerate]

You love it @hiyamotherfers :)

[Sparkie460]

If you broke up on good terms reach out to him and say hi

[hiyamotherfers]

Not really on good terms.

[Sparkie460]

It it will make you feel better you could write down what you want to say to him on a piece of paper then just put it in a drawer. Someone I know does that all the time. She said she feels better afterwards

[hiyamotherfers]

we used to write letters to each other every day. It might work it may not I'll keep you updated

[Sparkie460]

It's worth a try

[Guanfei]

I do, my crush from years ago. I loved this girl immensely, and I still miss her to this day.

[hiyamotherfers]

It fucking sucks man

[sheikalana]

It happened to me when me and my ex broke up. Is not a good feeling and it hurts a lot. I don't wish that to anyone.

[Redstang88]

Yeah, been a year and a half and I still lay awake at night trying to make sense of it

[Josef_89]

Hiç kimse o kadar değerli değil Kimseye değerinden fazla değer vermeyeceksin.

[gag37627]

It gave me depression clinically. Now it get triggered so easily when I miss someone I like. I run away from having feelings because of it

[Anarcamus]

Reach out. I bet he replies

[Anarcamus]

I say this because I know a lot of guys who told me something along these lines in the past.

[Anonymous]

Every day because she's dead

[clampfan101]

To the point of crying… My girlfriend passed away.

[dudeinohio]

Yes. I've been like that.

[Mansearching]

Not really.

[Anonymous]

Do masturbate twice...
Problem solved

[hiyamotherfers]

a day?

[Opinion Owner]

Everyday have good sext divert mind...

[hiyamotherfers]

shouldn't be to hard then

[Opinion Owner]

Yes friend sex is the only solution for every problem. Lol

[Cheerfull009]

I block only rude people

[Kelly6]

Sometimes yes

[Joker_]

yeah lol

[Anonymous]

Nope.

[eagle1951]

yess

[In_Trance]

never