Hey everyone.. so I broke up with my boyfriend 3 months ago on the account of emotional cheating ( he was talking to other women on apps behind my back which he justified as not cheating since there was nothing physical).
Yesterday was our final goodbye after I moved all my stuff out.. and I strictly told him that I have blocked him on all socials and his number so that he cannot contact me.
I'm so heartbroken.. and I know this is bad.. but I started using bumble to use as a distraction ( to talk to guys and have refused to meet anyone so far) .. however, today, my ex super swiped me and sent me a compliment on one of my pictures saying " cute".. I don't know what to think of this and how to react? He also sent me electricity bills which we together should pay via email..
Is this his way of trying to somehow keep his presence known? I'm confused..
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Tell him you WILL take legal action if he doesn’t leave you alone. You deserve better unless there is something super important like hey I have a nasty STD you may have it. Or something of significance that would warrant talking to you he needs to leave you the hell alone.
Emotional cheating is cheating absolutely. Even if he would never act on it he’s still giving attention to other women besides you I assume if you did that he would be PISSED but that’s typical rules for me not for thee behavior of narcissists.
But chances are if he never acted on it if the right time at the right place a opportunity came up he would probably do it. He probably has cheated too…. Being honest. I would bet that he has. I can’t confirm it maybe he never did. But many have
Jerk. Take it easy
He wants your money