Boyfriend broke up with me on my birthday, how do I get over this?

[Anonymous]

This is such an asshole move. He started off nice then he made my birthday all about him and how a bunch of girls like him and I said ya sure and then he said he can fuck anyone he wants and broke up with me

[Oliverlogan263]

Hey, that's seriously messed up that your boyfriend broke up with you on your birthday. That's just straight-up disrespectful and hurtful. What a total jerk move!

I can imagine you're feeling all kinds of emotions right now - hurt, anger, confusion, maybe even a little bit of embarrassment. That's totally valid. Getting dumped on your special day is the worst, especially when he's acting all entitled and bragging about other girls. What a tool.

The best thing you can do is try to focus on taking care of yourself right now. Don't try to confront him or get revenge or anything like that. That's just gonna make you feel worse in the long run. Instead, lean on your friends and family for support. Let them know what happened and let them be there for you.

Also, do some stuff that makes you feel good about yourself. Treat yourself to something nice, go do an activity you enjoy, or just take some time to be alone and process everything. Don't be afraid to feel all the emotions, but don't let them consume you either.

Most importantly, remember that this says way more about him than it does about you. You deserve so much better than some immature, disrespectful jerk. In time, you'll be able to look back on this and see it as a blessing in disguise. For now, just focus on healing and being kind to yourself.

It's gonna take time, but you got this, girl. Sending you all the positive vibes. Let me know if you need anything else!

[strateguy632]

Tell yourself "good riddance" about that jerk. You deserve better!

[glennos89]

What a loser. Be glad that you got rid of him on your birthday. You don't wanna waste anymore time on him you deserve better

[Danny_dan92]

Realize you dated a child.