Will I ever get over my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

He is my first love. The first guy I've kissed, the first guy I've had intercourse with. We had been dating for 9 months. I just broke up with him today (the last day of school) because everytime he does something to hurt me he isolates himself and I am the one who ends up comforting him. He has ruined everyday that was supposed to be fun by doing so. So, I broke up with him. I immediately started bawling my eyes out and after about 30 minutes I starting throwing up. I already want to talk to him and apologize. He's very sensitive and selfish and I keep on hurting him and it makes me feel horrible especially because I still love him. I don't know if i'll ever be able to get over him.

[Craftsman]

No matter how it feels, life will go on, and you'll get over him and will find happiness with someone new. Life and living seems to work that way. It sounds to me like he is rather immature and manipulative the way you describe how he hurts then isolates. That behavior is a red flag in my opinion. I've seen too often where that kind of emotional manipulation gets worse and worse.
I think you deserve better.
Also, remember life like nature abhors a vacuum. That 'space' in your life will fill sooner than you think, probably in ways you cannot imagine as yet.
In the meantime, take good care of you. You are the only you in existence, and for that reason you are the most important person in your life.

[LiamJHayden]

That sucks. Just take your time. You will eventually realize than you can certainly do better than someone who is selfish and who keeps intentionally hurting you,

[BrookeAZ90]

You'll be over him before you know it. It'll just feel like you won't for a little while. When you're older, a 9-month relationship is nothing. This is a good learning experience. But don't apologize. It's better to avoid contact for a little while until you've calmed down and can think clearly and you'll likey realize you gut instinct to end it was right.

[Anonymous]

no guy is worth throwing up over... you need to calm down. this was obviously for the best. a relationship can't survive like that.

[LazerBean]

And that's why you don't have sex outside of marriage. You will be able to move on pretty fast, but the damage will always be there.

[RHK36]

You did the right thing. It does get easier the older you get. It feels harder on you now because you're just getting experience with relationships.

[Emanon25]

Yes you can, it could be a little painful but you will get over it.

[In_Trance]

You will if you want to

[Anonymous]

Easily...
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