Most Helpful Guy
One of the reasons i think females are dumb when it comes to relationships is because of the fact that when sex is initiated... they feel he got what he "wanted"... but none of them have ever really asked what it was that he wanted and i can guarantee that over half the time.. it ain't just sex. even though sex (and what it comes with) is a big factor.
This guy was a gentleman, believe it or not, guys do take time to think as well. Its not just girls. If he doesn't contact you for a while, its because he realizes he made a big step. But in this case, i believe he will.
Another thing some girls dont realize is... guys have lives too.. we aren't hovering on our phone waiting to hear from you. When he gets around to it, he WILL contact you.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
Uh okay, so I skimmed through this and thought you were leading up to a scenario where he has been ignoring your texts and calls for weeks. Then went back up to the beginning and saw the "TODAY he invited me over".
You're being overly paranoid for nothing. Yes, there are guys who will drop all contact once they've gotten laid, but a lot of guys are not like that. This guy seemed considerate enough before, during and after the whole thing. So my first impression is that he's not like that. You never know, of course, but you know, he seems like a good guy.
If you're worried about losing contact with this guy, feel free to text him yourself. Let him know you had a nice time and that you liked the way he treated you. Maybe ask if he wants to hang out sometime soon. Don't freak out over nothing, it has barely even been a day (?) since it all happened.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE