Guys, Why does he ignore me when I ask for sex?

[Anonymous]

I try to initiate sex and he always ignores me. The most recent I had sent him a text asking him if he wanted to come to bed because the kids were sleeping among saying some other things etc. I know he got it because he always has his phone with him. And he just flat out ignored it. Came to bed and I woke up... i ALWAYS wake up when he comes to bed so I know he didn't try to wake me for sex. And he just ignores me. Goes on his phone then puts it away and rolls over to face me and goes to sleep. It really hurts me and pisses me off and if try to talk to him about it but all he says is sorry. Before this he was playing video games.

Why am I not fucking good enough?

[RespectfulGuy]

Fact:

A healthy guy below 60 produces semen and will naturally ejaculate once about every 2 weeks (wet dreams).

Before the natural process, he'll feel horny and feel a strong urge to release. (So strong that a deprived male can rape a female).

Hence sex and masturbation is almost what defines a healthy young guy. This is so clearly seen right here in GaG.

To conclude, your boyfriend behavior is either medically complicated, or he masturbates too much, or is cheating on you. Other reasons like being asexual or gay is unlikely based on your details.

[JamesMI616]

It sucks but sometimes you lose physical attraction for someone you love and there's no way to say it. He could also be cheating or just gratifying himself to porn. There's a chance that you're just out of sync and the initiation of sex has become super awkward. Maybe try talking about it or reigniting the spark and find your chemistry again. Hopefully it's not too late

[spartan55]

By text? Ugh are you kidding me? I'd ignore that too.

[RHK36]

He's using you because you let him. Kick the bum out of your life or don't complain because then you're complicit.

[Wise4myage]

He's probably cheating on you, but the bigger question is why are you still with this guy?

[Asker]

He never physically goes anywhere though. He has no job so he is home 24/7

[Asker]

Like last night I get up and got to the bathroom. I was crying so he probably heard that and then I moved my pillow and he said I threw it down 🙄
Then I tried moving it too get more comfortable and it hit this thing that had puzzle pieces in it and he goes "what's the matter with you?" I told him I was trying to adjust my pillow to get more comfortable and he snaps at me about sleeping on the couch. I told him that's a bad idea because he will just be cranky with me for having to sleep there and he's like I will be cranky with you now if your don't drop the attitude. I didn't have one

[Wise4myage]

Why bother staying with this guy?

[DextroShade]

Let's get the obvious out of the way: height, weight, dress size?

[cloud9vortex1234]

He's getting his rush of Dopamine from his Game Console and not you.