Why would a guy ignore me after having a sexual encounter with me?

[Anonymous]

My guyfriend won't even respond to my texts anymore after i gave him head. we texted two days after that day but then he ignored me the rest of the week like i dont even exist. and here's the thing i have this feeling he didn't just use me cus he was acting awkward about the whole thing after. he's one of those guyf that cares for me he's the only guyi have hung out with the most and he's the only that has boyght me food or has offereed. he even flirted with me when he had a gf i think he may just be scared to contact me cuz he thoug was awkward what do u think cuz he enjoed the bj

[nessawolfes]

This is happening to me too (except he wasn't in a relationship before). We've done this a few times and I think he enjoys it, but afterwards, he's really dry and just won't answer texts. It's confusing though because when I do stuff with him he acts so caring, but then after he seems annoyed. I don't know what to do at this point because I know we both like each other, but I don't know why he does this after.

[Anonymous]

thats probably all he wanted from you.. and now he feels awkward and shy and doesn't want to talk to you anymore.

[wanttolicku]

The easy answer is that he got what he wanted and has moved on, guys are known for that. Another possibility is he is now uncomfortable around you, maybe he has decided that he didn't like your style or something about the encounter has made him realize your incompatibility.

[Asker]

What do u mean? i think he's just awkward about this happening. cuz before i told him i liked him and he didn't answer me but we still hung out after that. he enjoyed it and wanted to again and he couldnt come those days cuz sometimes he doesn't have a car to come get me

[Asker]

Now he's ignoring everytext. all i texted him was to comeagain to mess around. again. if he didn't like what happened that night he would of told me trust me he's one of those guys.

[Anonymous]

He could be a womanizer, the head could have been bad, he could have lost respect from you or a combination of some of these.

[Asker]

It wasn't bad lol he told me two nights in a row that he was gonna come again but couldnnt.

[Opinion Owner]

Well he is ignoring you and it would be hard to tell why. You might ask then disagree with all the possible answers but it is what happened.

[egyptiano164]

offering to buy food or flirting while he has a girlfriend doesn't prove anything about that he cares to u, and doesn't change the fact that u been used and im sry to say that giving a head to "a friend" making u so cheap, and he would probably text u when he wants another bj, respect ur humanity

[Asker]

What are u talking about this happened after he had a gf. they werent together he just flirted with me when he was with her. hesss singke when we did all that stuff i wrote it wrong up top. his gf actually cheated on him wtf...

[Asker]

And second of all i would never mess with a guy that has a gf asshole. ur pissing me off now. u probably didn't read what i said right

[egyptiano164]

he is a "guy friend" why the fuck u gave him a bj?
u can do that to him when u r n a relationship!!!
u can't start a relation with a bj!!

[Asker]

I just wannted friends with benefits thats all lol

[egyptiano164]

friends with benefit means that u r an exclusive hoe, not a good friend nor a gf
dont be offended, we will never meet, thats why im frank about it, u never believe a man no matter how open he is if he denies this fact

[Asker]

How am i a hoe? wtf. I've only slept with one person ever lol. im young i can have fun with one guy ur acting like i wanna go with like 10 guys!!! not a good friend he came up with the idea first for us to be friends with benefits lol

[egyptiano164]

i said "exclusive hoe", a hoe for one person, and what u call "having fun" including bj, making out, or having sex with someone whom is not ur boyfriend nor ur husband making u a whore, no doubt, whores are whom not exclusive for a bf or husband, u dont have to get paid to be called whore

[Anonymous]

I think he's feeling guilty, has a g/f & you're easy... he's using you & you sound slutty tbh. As if you let him when he had a g/f... I hope someone cheats on you tbh.

[Asker]

What are u talking about i said when he had a gf he would flirt with me we never did anything when he was in a relationship wtf. maybe u should reread what i said before saying that to me. now he's single and i did that to him. his gf actually cheated on him soo get ur fucking facts straight bitchh hahaa. im not slutty wtf I've only had sex with one person i dont sleeep around soooo.. lmaoo

[Anonymous]

Either u sucked at it or he got in troubble lol.

[Asker]

No he really enjoyed lol he wanted to do it again what do u mean got in trouble?:/

[Opinion Owner]

Either got caught by somebody or he homestly just used u. Believe me from experence girls have used me cause they say im goodat eatting them out and after i do. They dont talk to me at all.

[Asker]

But i dont think he used me thought weve been good friends and he really does care for me tho. he always gets distance if feelings come inbetween. i told him i liked him bo contact but we still hung out and now i gave him head he said he was gonna come the next night qnd he ask me did i want him to come and i said yes but after that no contact. like were friends and if we was just mesing aroundfor fun he would if comtacted me. he's friends with many girlswhy didn't he contact them instead of me. there so muchto this story

[Opinion Owner]

No idea.

[Asker]

Ok:/

[Opinion Owner]

Sorry im not much help. Hopefully everything gets better and works out. (: