I’ve been speaking to this guy for nearly a month, it was initially slow for a week because I was on holiday but once I came back we got along so well. He made a shared playlist on Spotify, a shared notes doc where he put down things we could do, He called me every night and would message constantly and added me on every form of social media - Snapchat, instagram , Twitter etc. he would also send me messages on social media. This was all before our first date. There were some red flags because I felt like he was a bit insecure because he mentioned about past relationships and how he got cheated on and how he would want girls to give him the same energy back. He also mentioned about how he looked.
our date was really fun-we went for drinks. We were drunk so we were kissing a lot but also having good conversations. A few things that popped out to me that made me think he was insecure. Firstly he was showing me pictures of his abs and he was sticking his arm out to indicate how big his private part was. We were playing a drinking game to get to know each other better and the question were a bit sexual which I didn’t realise. I did communicate that I don’t do random hookups and he said the same thing. On the date he asked me twice when our second would be and when I went home he said he’ll message me tomorrow.
The next day he messages me but our messages are barely anything. He responds to me after 4 hours and I mirror that. The next day I go on holiday and he wishes me a safe flight. We exchange 1/2 messages however he adds me to his private snap story which I thought was very random because only certain people can see it. He also liked my story on Instagram. I come back and he knew when I was back. I also uploaded a snap on my private story as well to say I’m back. He views it and then uploads a story himself a few mins later with him and his niece who he always sends pics to me. I message him and he ignores me and ghosts me. Why are guys like this?
